Do you mean the first REAL date or just meeting someone for the first time??? Call me old fashion, but I prefer to meet for the first time someplace after work for a glass of wine or beverage of choice. And we'll both know in less than 15 seconds (no pressure here, is there? lol) ... but if the sparks/chemistry/attraction/quivery knees, the "omg" look is there (I'm talking for both now)... then the 2nd date will be just around the corner... if not sooner! Hey...life's too short...let's go for it!!