ok.. here I go!!
first off please read.. it only takes a few minutes and it will hopefully save us both time! I know I may not make a lot of brownie points with everyone.. but I don't want everyone.. I just want one!!!
I know timing has a lot to do with these sites, I also know I really don't like chatting with multiple people as it takes away from trying to get to know someone on this level! If your too into on rushing to the next profile.. just means you haven't the time nor patience to get to know someone.. The future is a long way away.. spending some time now might propel you into more happy later!! if you send me a message having certain things I have on my not interested list, I probably won't reply... seems you couldn't read the first time, so i'll skip trying to be nice in a reply!! I do seek a woman who has more natural beauty than all makeup, if at night you wash it off and turn into someone completely different.. let's meet the pretty clean you!!
that is my basic outlook... now something about me that hopefully intrigues you my way!! lol!!
I grew up in wasaga beach, high schooled in Collingwood.. given the chance to do it again somewhere else, I would decline! luved the beach and it's become part of my blood! always had a place in cocoa beach, florida.. did a lot of cottaging in the muskoka's.. each place help me create a laid back easy go attitude with a strong serious side.. when am I going back!! haha!! moved to Toronto for a whack of years and finally landed in Niagara falls where most of my family is! there is a lot of us.. three sisters and three brothers! they are all pretty fantastic people and very open, especially if it's someone I am proud of! if your not into getting to know them or just can't stand some events that have a lot of people and kids.. we prolly won't make it!! my nieces and nephews are all under 14 and I adore them all!! family is very important and as much as I want you a part of mine, I'll gladly accept yours as well.. teamwork wins everytime!! haha!! so after we've dated for a while and you have no idea who is who or anything about any of them, it'll probably just make me sad!
I want fun, smiles, adventure! I believe being silly sometimes keeps us feeling young!! I am a romantic just waiting to bloom for the right person! luv affection, kissing, holding hands, staring at you for no other reason as I am becoming your biggest fan and will do anything for you! I want loyality, honesty.. good and bad.. great sex is awsum now.. excellent communication will pave our future!! sex!! haha!! we have some catching up to do!! I do have to be honest in some of my wants.. our future depends on it.. everyone has things they want or desire.. mine are simple!! one more part some might have bad feelings over while I am upsetting a lot, I am not romantically into big women, I know they are fantastic people and I have had many friends in that category, just on the romantic side is isn't what I desire, sorry!!
the gurl I seek will prolly have three things, beauty in my eyes, kids and a following I have to compete with:
the beauty part is what I see, not your mom, your friends or what you think in a mirror, it's what I see and adore! everyone has their own tastes, I have mine too!!
if you have kids.. huge note right here.. I have dated more women with than without, each time something happens your kids are taken from me! you know what, it's tough on some guys.. or just me!! I am not I a rush to meet them nor will I pressure you about it, when we decide ready, away we go! i'll do everything I can for their acceptance if we become more exclusive! I'm great with kids of all ages and maybe I can be their friend who they might like to turn too one day!
and the beauty part comes with, I know your busy weeding through all sorts of mail from all sorts of people.. I get it! I am complimentive to those who I deem are worthy.. I just hope you like hearing it! I believe in opening doors, flowers for no reason, being a gentleman! I have the bestis intentions but do know I need to find a way to be aggressive enough that you'll know you have gained a fan, but giving you the space to remove ones already engaged with!! lol!! you give me the time, i'll prove my being sweet isn't just to get into your shirt (lol) but truly is genuine!!
I luv to eat and am hopeful in creating a more healthy diet, we have one body to go through life with, gotta maintain it!!
so I hope the persons I may not crave didn't make it this far and my one that did are smiling and blushing.. hi, I'm scott, nice to meet you, let's get away from here and go have some fun!!!
my occasional smoking thing up there, I have turned to the vape side and successfully weened myself off the nicotine, now I feel the whole quitting thing is actually in reach!!
two last things..
an address is only a starting point, if we make it through the interview process to create a real type relationship, we both gain a cottage somewhere!! haha!!
most guys wanna luv 1000 women, I wanna luv one 1000 ways!!
a first date eh....... well as much as i want to have this work between us, a first date is crap ! haha ! it should just be to see if there is a mutual chemistry between us. the attraction.... it should involve things like a seemless conversation.... alot of laughs.... some flirty talk.... something that leaves us looking for more ! if there is all of the above..... that initial anticipation should be carried into the second date !!! things can go out of box because we know we are looking for the same type of things, that's where we know we can bond !!! as much as i might like to kiss you during our first date, i will always be the gentleman and use as much restrain as you see fit!!! lol !!