Honestly, I hadn't planned on putting this out there as a first impression but... Let's not waste each others time... Here we go... DEAL BREAKERS include having:
-Children by multiple women
-Baby Mama Drama
-An uncontrollable need to compete with ME
-Lack of appropriate communication
-Talking nonstop about your ex or the last woman that hurt your feelings
-No ride, no job, no security
-No good conversation be sides hey, hi, hello, booooobies!
-Only talking about yourself and how awesome you are LOL
-Introducing sex into a conversation with no prompting
-Sending a bunch of body shots and unsolicited****pics
-Calling me exotic like some animal from a far away land LOL
-If your idea of a first date is chillin at your house.
Now that that is out of the way... I'm Bella, IF I find you attractive, and your profile is interesting I will definitely hit you back! I promise. Believe it or not I get about 50 social network messages a day. Not bragging, just saying I cant read every single message and that is why I decided to prominently display my turn offs. I'm open to meeting an amazing guy. If you made it this far it could be you! ??
The biggest question I get asked "Why are you single?" The short answer is I know who I am and I know who I'm looking for...
Physically I am attracted to tall muscular men. Beautiful eyes & smiles, and strong hands. I love pretty much all races of men and I don't particularly have a preference. An adonis is an adonis regardless of color.
Mentally I loooooove an intelligent man. Having some education behind you is a plus even self-education! Ambition and drive are profoundly important to me. I'm looking for a team-mate and partner in all things awesome. I am eager to be submissive but I have to admire and trust a man enough to let my guard down and let him lead me. I enjoy sci-fi, anime and fantasy... I'm hands on and crafty.
Emotionally I would say that I didn't have any baggage but recently I realized that everyone has some, even if its small like a carry on. Full disclosure? I can't deal with men who break their word. No one is afforded trust off the bat. Trust is something that you earn. No I'm not talking about going through phones and hacking facebooks. That is super petty. If it comes to that all is already lost. I'm talking about being able to trust that someone is who they claim to be. Do what you say you are going to do and stand behind your word. After all what is man who can't keep his word?
Anyone seriously interested in meeting someone special WILL take time to read their profile. I hope you appreciated my honesty and transparency. I am not interested in playing games, what you see is what you get with me. I'm direct. I DO NOT enjoy arguing and I'll choose silence over heated debates and reapproach them when I am calm cool and thoughts are collected.
I will cook for you, make love to you, fight for you, hustle by your side, celebrate your wins, work hard to keep you interested and attracted, be truthful, honest, and devoted to US. What ever you put into our relationship, it is safe to expect me to maximize it and return the love. I'm affectionate but not clingy. When we go out together I like people to think wow that's an attractive couple. LOL
I guess that's enough talking for now...