I'm a white, single non-smoker and Indianapolis native who has the unfortunate problem of being called a filmmaker, artist, sculptor, psychic, liberal, director, dyslexic, photographer, storyteller, sensualist, and kinky **stard. I don't care for any of these labels. I suppose I do make short films, sculpt glass, generally think left, love to tell stories, and am fascinated by all manner of sensation... so I can understand how someone would want to apply one of these labels. I just don't like them is all.
But, that's plenty enough about me because this post isn't about me. It's about you, and giving you a chance to get my attention. So, towards that end, I'll put to you a simple task. Read this post and respond with three things that will make me want to get to know you better. Give me your best shot.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
I hate the term date because it sets up all sorts of awkward and unpleasant expectations. I prefer the term outing.
A first outing often starts off at a coffee shop or maybe getting a snack at a locally owned eatery. You'll show up a few minutes early, I'll show up a few minutes late, because I usually do. Your first thought will be "Wow, he's cuter than his picture." Your second thought will be "Man, he's so not my type." We'll sit and talk, and before long you'll begin to wonder if you should be rethinking 'your type', because you've never met someone as engaging, honest, real, intuitive, and genuine as me.
If some chemistry starts to develop, then we might ditch the coffee joint and I'll show you what other cool things are going on in town... maybe an art show, maybe a concert, maybe something completely off your map it's so cool... you just never know. There we will continue to talk and get to know each other. You'll ask about the kink, I 'll ask what your favorite sensation is. You'll ask about my job, I'll ask about the most fulfilling experience in your life. You'll ask what side of town I live on and I'll ask why you aren't more creative. You'll wonder why I'm more interested in you than in your job, your car, your family life, your boss, your bills, your house, your dog.
Afterwards, I'll walk you back to your car, where we'll kiss and I may, if you're a very good girl, bite your shoulder playfully. You'll drive home and immediately call your girlfriend and tell her what an amazing dat- er - outing you just went on, and how you can't wait to go out again.