If you are not within 2 or 3 hr drive of NW GA....please don't waste the time reading further. I won't consider any type of LONG distance relationship. I'm NOT the pen pal type! Military men are wonderful.....but not overseas!!!
If you are interested.....you MUST say Hello! When they took away the ability to search by username....it's VERY HARD to connect now. I get MANY notices that someone is interested...and CANNOT RESPOND! Very frustrating... to say the least.
I don't like online dating ....lol. Can you relate? Not needing someone to make me happy, because I already AM! But... I am still hoping to have someone significant again in my life! Not looking for someone to change, or wanting to find someone that wants to change me. Things can only change when compromise happens ... and both parties are flexible. I like to think I'm still reasonably flexible. With today's technology (and sometimes unrealistic expectations) actually getting connected is honestly frustrating. Dating is simply taking the time to get to know someone. Keep in mind that we don't always just fit into each other's free time instantly. Good communication is KEY!! I can text a little....but tire of it quickly! Just because I have a computer and phone to text....I still want to hear your sweet voice! Wanting to actually meet someone and see where it goes, and that requires conversation.....not just a hello! I also have learned that good people sometimes just don't mesh! No one is at fault.
I am who I am....and you are too!! I'm not perfect and not expecting someone to be either. Some age difference not a factor... be ye younger or older. (If I could be your grandmother...it is...LOL!!) Compatibility is key! Too much heart left in me that wants to live, love, and share life !
Active, happy, and not a couch potato! Love to get outdoors. Life is better SHARED and I honestly miss that...does anyone else? Love to sit and watch summer rains on the porch, maybe ride on a motorcycle, stroll/hike through the woods, picnic in the park, check out the zoo, rediscover dancing, discover places and sites I've not yet seen! Where do YOU want to go?? Maybe we can go together?!
I'm ready to make some NEW memories! Wanting a GREAT 2017!! DO YOU?
( I do not date outside of my own race; just a personal preference.)
DISCLAIMER: Probably like some of you, I am a longtime single.Am I confident? I'd like to think so. Do I have all the answers? DEFINITELY NO!! There's a side of me that I miss, but still hope to rediscover. Married once, I truly believe love is "out there". I am optimistic that it is! I have friends that have found new loves and even rekindled old ones at this time of life, So it does still happen! Initial contact should be a fun/relaxed time of getting to know the other person. There is no greater turnoff than listening to someone talk about their ex(es). Remember too that it's not a job interview and that most of us have a history at this stage of our lives. All that can/should be explained at a later time, not initially. Just trying to be realistic and honest. I hope you agree.
Thanks for taking a moment to check me out!! I'm Cindy.