I simply believe that there is a man out there who would like a relationship first and foremost. A man who would like to get to know me as a person as I would you. Perhaps I am on the wrong site. It seems guys on dates only want to eat me up and bed me. I am searching for the man I can trust with my life. A man who wants to grow as a person with me in ALL ways. Having said all that... yes... I have written a lot here. It is because I actually am looking for more than a lover... I am looking for a man who sees me, hears me, inspires me, wants to be with me, laughs with me, and is a passionate lover. Is that you?
Are you unconventional and love to grow. Do you enjoy conversations with substance, depth and on the silly side. Some have told me I am very philosophical and am deep when I speak, which to me is simply fun. I love to laugh.
If you are only looking for sex, then I am NOT for you. There are so many other women who would be a better match for you. I am a passionate woman who is looking to be courted and would like to get to know you first before heading to the bedroom. Yes I know, hard to believe that such a sexy woman as I would hold out for a man who is willing to create a friendship and loving relationship. When I give myself to someone it is all of me, so I feel it is only fair that you do the same thing too. I am not into sharing you with another woman. Honest men only please.
Connection with you at a heart and mind level, plus to be able to trust you deeply are values I hold dear. I am looking for someone who knows how to treat a woman as a woman. I am a strong woman who also likes to be courted and cared for.
A man who can make decisions and has a purpose in life is very sexy to me. I love intimacy and sex is also very important to me. In the enneagram I am an '8'.
About "US" (maybe, perhaps...)
I saw a sign that says they have snowmen for sale, some assembly required. We could assemble it together.
I have a few extra pounds that don't seem to leave me no matter how many bootcamps I attend AND I am very strong and fit anyways.
We can talk about quantum physics, philosophy, deep conversations as well as silly ones.
We could share in the cooking experience as well as go out or order in.
Cuddling under the moonlit sky or enjoying a fire while the sound of rain falls on the roof, keeping each other warm no matter what the weather is.
Lets create together our unique blend of happiness, weirdness (lets face it we all have this to some extent), choices in all areas, and whatever life has to offer.
Not sure what ambitious means in the profile and I put it there anyways....
If you are still reading this and are a one woman kinda guy, I would love to hear from you. Thank you. Peace Out!
Here is some writing from an author I admire:
To Live as Bliss, your true nature, you must Choose it. Your soul is the canvas of Life. Your experiences, including your joys and your burdens, are the colours of eternity. You are the artist. You are The One who splashes the colours on the canvas. You are the Freedom to create. You are the Love that fulfills every dream. In Truth, you are it all. There is no need to focus on any one aspect, giving it more importance than any other. Relax open. If you want to know who wrote this please ask me.
It is important that we simply be ourselves, have fun and laugh. I am a little old fashioned in that I feel a man can make the decision for the date. Yes I can be consulted so I feel safe. Ultimately you choose the restaurant or coffee shop and buy me the meal or tea. If that is a problem for any reason then we are not a match. I appreciate a man who is confident in who he is. Until then.... xxooxx