Playful human: seeking new playmates
About
Non-smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
City
Kailua kona, Hawaii
Details
65 year old Man, 5' 9" (175cm), Non-Religious
Ethnicity
Caucasian Taurus with Black hair
Intent
Playful human Casual Dating/No Commitment
Education
Masters degree
Personality
Hedonist
Profession
Retired


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I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Dog Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? My children are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years



About Me
I'm an Island guy thinking a city gal, to share the best of both worlds, might be a good thing.

I have a high cuddle quotient (c-q): rather than "searching for meaning" I think "man" is searching for the way back into the womb; cuddling is the closest mathematical approximation to a womb with a view. How's your c-q deficiency ratio doing?

And, I am a very funny guy; a learning community I was part of for two years gave me the "Unsolicited Comments Award", along with a bottle of Beano, at our final gathering.

My values: radical honesty; family; friends; commitment/loyalty; beauty; simplicity; service.

Joys: My children (grown) and grandchildren, and little people in general; friends; my doggy and most other sentient beings; singing; music of almost any kind; laughing; touch, both sensual and sexual; listening deeply to others stories; being seen and heard.

Mystery: My sense of connection with spirit/divine presence was cultivated from a young age (starting with Yogananda and Christian mysticism). I find questions concerning "religious involvement" wholly inadequate to elicit the meanings I give these domains of life. My practices are integrated into daily living and I'm at home with earth-based rituals; but, I do find Dances of Universal Peace a form of collective worship that work well for me, too. I am attracting new members to my family of choice with a key unifying element among us: adoration of the Divine Feminine, with mutual support for influencing her in each of us toward honoring and restoring Sacred Matriarchy.

Questions I found interesting from Perfectmatch:

1. List one or two of your accomplishments you take the most pride in.

My latest is gestating and mid-wifing the "Random Acts of Deep Listening as a Spiritual Practice" workshop.

And, learning it's not what I just did that counts, but what I do next.

2. What is the smartest decision you ever made?

I'd rather be in relationship than be right.

3. What person (relative, friend or other) has made the biggest impact/influence on your life?

The last one who was vulnerable with me.

4. Best memories?

Being present at the bookends of others' lives.

Some notes about you:

You have a voice, a developed and established expressive venue, be it written word, sound, movement, visual or a combo. You know who you are and what you’re about; you are generally satisfied.

You are at ease with silence and understand, and ideally practice, solitude.

You are affectionate, sensual, passionate, at home in your skin: from time to time you love "marathon" sex.

I am looking for friendships founded on joy and fun, without expectation; playmates if you will. If something unfolds in an organic way to surprise us, great.

In that event I ultimately want a collaborator for the path of relationship yoga, someone committed to service in the world and dancing the continuum of sacred to profane. I want a friend who is able to relax into "not knowing" whenever "what's next" isn't readily clear; you manage your anxiety with grace and self awareness, and allow others to do the same. I want a partner in the ongoing anthropological self-explorations of paradox and inconsistency, with a ready sense of humor and compassion for your and my humanity.

First Date
A walk in the park, on the beach, or around the village; share favorite poems or songs; make up stories about people we see; play with my, your, our dog(s); share some food and drink. Feel our way into what's next.

Or, if that's all too easy going we could take a bubble bath.


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