ruthegirliwant: Looking for a good woman for ever !!!
About   Smokes often with Average body type   City Port Hope Ontario
Details   61 year old Man, 6' 0" (183cm), Christian - other Ethnicity Caucasian Virgo with Brown hair
Intent   ruthegirliwant Education High School
Personality   Profession


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I am Seeking a Woman For Long term
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Do you drink? I do not drink Do you want children? No
Marital Status Married Do you do drugs? No
Pets No Pets Eye Color Other
Do you have a car? N/A Do you have children? My children are over 18
Longest Relationship



About Me
Where does one start? I guess a physical description is best. I'm 56 physically and perpetually 21 in my mind. I have brown hair with some gray, mustache, deep set ice blue eyes which women have always loved. I need to lose a few pounds around the waist but it's taken me so many years to acquire them that I hate to give them up (I was always svelt.) I don't consider myself to be a great looking guy but I've never had any trouble getting good looking women. I'm quite sure the reasons for that have been my exceedingly high IQ, my outgoing personality, some sort of animal magnetism that women have had towards me or me to them as the case may be, they've always told me I was very sexy. But you have to get to know me first to see my attractions, at least, in very many cases. When I was younger a lot of girls would go for my better looking friends and then switch to chasing me when they got to know me a little. Of course, there was no shortage of girls who'd chase me to start with. I've never had a real hang up on looks by the way. I figure, if I can wake up in the morning and look over at you and be happy I'm with you, for the rest of my life, then, you're good enough looking for me. Your personality is by far your best asset with me.
Now, more on myself I guess. I have a great sense of humour and love to laugh. I am very sociable and will strike up a conversation with anyone, anywhere, anytime. I can't resist saying things to people, especially if I can make them smile or laugh. In my business life I often end up talking to 1,000 to 1,500 people in one day, so I get used to developing a rapport very quickly. Funny thing though, in a one to one situation like a first date I'm just as liable to get nervous and awkward so please forgive me if that happens. Give me a little time and I'll get over it.
I'm very interested in people so I'll ask all about you. I also like to talk about myself so you won't have any trouble getting to know me. I know, I really should analyze why I like to talk about myself, but, I'm quite sure I don't want to know.
I've written a few books (not likely the type you'd read), so, I'm sorry if this turns into one, but, it's in my nature. In fact, I've done an awful lot of things. I live my life by the credo that I don't want to do anything, I want to do everything. As such, I've always chosen what I want to do next, not what I want to do for a lifetime. I'm still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up.
I love wheeling and dealing, in everything, I guess that's been the core of my life. Whether it's buying and selling real estate or just getting a great deal at a yard sale, usually on something I'll resell for more, I'm excited by the entire process. One thing I can say for sure, I'm VERY good at it.
I've been poor and I've been rich. Right now, I'm poor but working on what I'll do to regain the wealth. So if you're chasing me for my money, you're too early. I live on a very old farm, perfect location for me, my nearest neighbour is 1.5 km away. I have real privacy, in fact, a private park. So, I bought a private park with an old house that will look like new in another five years. The park is my blessing, the house is my pennance for all the sins I've committed throughout life, whatever they might have been. I bought and sold fixer uppers for many years. I had a great crew and would do a house about every month. It was great, but now I work alone so it's a lot slower. But then, I'M a lot slower.
Ok, this is turning into a book. And yes, I'll probably make it longer later. You might as well know what you're getting up front. But you need to know what I want/need/desire. I'm looking for a beautiful woman, very wealthy, who loves and adores me and buys me everything I've ever wanted and has sex with me 3 times a day. And oh yes, don't forget, she has to be perfect to make up for my imperfections. Ok, so, what do I realistically want?? I want a lady who can love deeply, as I can and do. I want someone who thinks marriage is forever, no endings allowed. I want someone who likes affection, lots of affection. Someone who isn't afraid to hold hands, to kiss, to hug, to snuggle and to make love when and where the urge strikes. Yes, I do love to do all those things.
I want someone who I can watch movies with, take for a long drive in the country, explore a city or town, explore a patch of woods or river. I want (don't you just love the original way I'm starting each sentence?? ) someone I can take to airshows, expositions, gunshows, dining, dancing (if I still can, it's been a while), and just anywhere and she'll enjoy the moments. What I really want is somene who has that excitement for life that young women have and really great mature women still have. Can you adjust, adapt, change, create, enjoy, envision, accept or are you fixed and staid? You just have to know I'm looking for the former and not the latter. If you are ****y, nagging, domineering, or otherwise unpleasant to be around, don't go away mad but please go away! I don't have an age in mind, like I said, I'm perpetually 21 so whatever your age, you be perpetually 21 also. I like younger women, but younger can be a state of mind, not a physical age. Now, I'm not at an age that I want to start having babies again so, perhaps younger women should give that some thought before contacting me. There are however, no restrictions on age, as long as you're of legal age, just be young at heart no matter what age you are.
Looks, well, I did mention earlier that I'm not really concerned with looks. There are a few things though that are important. First, size. I'm sorry but I'm just not into the BBW thing. I don't mind if you're a few pounds overweight, most of us are, but I can't get turned on by, well, fat, so, no responses please from 'large' ladies. Second, you have to be sexy. What is sexy? Well, if you feel sexy, aren't afraid to dress sexy, enjoy looking sexy and being looked at, then you're probably sexy. You don't need to be some gorgeous young model to look sexy or be sexy, but if you feel unsexy, well, you just aren't going to excite me and without exciting each other, what would we have for a love life? Without a love life there isn't going to be a strong attachment to one another and then what's the point of it all?
The biggest no no of all is jealousy. If you're a jealous type, this just won't work at all.
I want someone who is not set in their ways so much that they won

First Date
I would do nothing exciting at first. I think first dates are to get to know someone and see if there's any spark or interest in actually doing something together. Perhaps a stroll on a beach or sitting watching the waves come in while we talk and explore each other (verbally of course). There's always numerous options if we both decide we'd like to take it further (and that can happen quickly if the chemistry is there). I can be very spontaneous and creative and I'm very adventurous.



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