I live by these words: Be Yourself, play the music loud, dance like no one is watching, and enjoy every minute we have on this earth - 'cause this is it, enjoy its sh*t! The people I surround myself with are those who are confident with themselves, not pressured or influenced by what they believe others will think, free spirited people not afraid to take risks.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Have a few drinks, a great dinner with wine, go see a show (preferably a play, rather than a movie), go dancing at a great club and an earth shaking good night kiss .... AAAhhh one can dream