First dates can be great with the right person. Go out and grab a bit to eat and have a few drinks and then think out of the box and do something fun. Something a bit unfair so beware. Becareful when you open an email from anyone before you reply, check the profile. Here's why. Got an email from a lady justsaying "hi, how are you". I didn't check the profile and replied "great, how are you" Then I checked the profile and see it's a married lady looking for an "intimate encounter" Now, I am unable to email any of you nice ladies who have a restriction that says "must not have contacted anyone looking for sex" or something like that. Pardon the french but that really sucks considering those are usually the nicest people on here have that restriction. And I fully understand. There's too many weirdos out there. So, although it's rude to add someone to a favorite list without contacting them first (how the heck can they be a favorite if you never talked to them), if you see I added you as a favorite but didn't email you, it's not because I don't want to....I can't! Up to you if you you want to send the first email. Guess I can respond, haven't tried yet. But I'm not a peerve, on the contrary very respectful (okay, sometime that bad boy side comes out but you'd have to make that happen lol)...and you know, there's probably allot of other people on here that fell into the same trap...so moral is to this rambling story - check the profile before you reply to an email. Even if it's just a simple HI. Oh, and please...no coffee. Can't do coffee after 2:00pm so unless we meet for breakfast, a drink works best. :-) Happy fishing ladies!