I like going fishing and running. I was in the USMC and now i work on Computer Networks. Also in my spare time i like to just BBQ or just hang out with friends. I will probably be the most open minded person you will ever meet. So give me a try if you would like. Like they say, You Only Live Once
I love reading stories from such authors as Sir Arthur Conan Doyle to Stephen King. I love time period movies and yes Romance .( When you don't have it you get it any way you can and yes men seek that too). All my hair is black with the grey starting to show.
I am currently on a very strict work out regiment to get my Marine body back but i don not expect my significant other to be that way. I like women of all shape and sizes . BBW women are lovely .I have dated everything from Black to Hispanic women I am particularly attracted to Caucasian women so all you haters need to get over it . And age if not a factor with me . I dated a 60 yr old beautiful Caucasian lady that looked like she was in her 40s and acted like a 18 yr old. Young at heart is all that matters and like the old saying goes its not what you have but how you use it .
I work hard and I play hard , i don't expect the same but you need to understand that about me =)
Laughter and love is the key to life.
Learning to play the Guitar, and getting good.
Finishing my first novel for publication
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Quite walk , Holding Hands, Looking into each other eyes, The beach is the best place especially with moonlight. Meeting at a Starbucks and maybe for us working professionals i know time is a very big factor so i am willing to meet either at a well people friendly park or Restaurant of Fast Food place.
I want to date You and not your baggage from your previous ex. Looking for a friend and a lover and if i get real lucky then i will get both from the same person. I value a relationship and i don't like being taken for granted or mind games. That ladies is the deal killer. I encourage for you to speak your mind blunt or not. Tell it like it is and i will appreciate you more . All women are ladies no matter what there past is like. If men can do it so can women. No shame in that. Respect , Respect , Respect
And i don't expect this on the first ,second or 5th date but you must also have a love or need for physical contact. In other words no hang ups about sex ( Yes i said it so now i will be labeled just another guy trying to get laid) . What i mean is we are all here for the things we need from a probable future partner , friend or significant other. I like Monogamy with a future partner and with that partner i would like to be physical with , and not just sex but holding hands, kissing for long duration's. Cuddling etc....I say this because as much stamina as i have for sports or activities i also have that stamina in the bedroom. I don not expect a marathon ( Although it would be nice =) ) in the bedroom but i am not a 1 minute man if you know what i mean.
And safety and common sense must apply. I have never had a STD and i don't plan on having one so i expect the same from my possible significant other . I get myself checked out yearly so i know where i stand .
I want the things that make a man and woman complete with each other. I am always up front and sometimes blunt and that will and has gotten me in trouble but i will always see and treat you like the lady that you are.
So those that think i am just looking for sex and do not get the intellectual message that i am trying to relay to you in such small terms need not apply. Those that do , please i await your answer .
Let the cards fall where they may, we all get dealt a hand in life , its what you make of it that counts