I am now engaged to someone I have been seeing for a while now, who I kept meeting at POF events. We still go to some of the events together to see our friends.
If I put you on my favorites it just means that I think you are interesting and I met you at an event or if we meet some day I want to remember where I saw you.
Something interesting to both of us. With the option of extending it. You name it I will consider it (ok... the tattoo should be something I won't have to explain for the rest of my life ). Everything in moderation: moderately safe, moderately sane.
How about: Cook a gourmet meal, stargaze, order a pizza by random number, have a spontaneous picnic, spin a pen and drive where it points, go shopping, dance.
If you are the right person, then a walk and a coffee would be heaven. If you are the wrong person, 20 minutes in paradise could be torture.
The best first date is just that, the first of many.