| About | Non-Smoker with Athletic body type | City | Dartmouth Nova Scotia | |
| Details | 42 year old Man, 5' 7" (170 cm), Non-Religious | Ethnicity | Caucasian Aries with Mixed Color hair |
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| I am Seeking a | Woman | For | Long Term | |
| Needs Test | View his relationship needs | Chemistry | View his chemistry results | |
| Do you drink? | No | Do you want children? | Undecided/Open | |
| Marital Status | Single | Do you do drugs? | No | |
| Pets | Cat | Eye Color | Blue | |
| Profession | designer/cad operator | Do you have children? | No | |
| Education | High School | Do you have a car? | Yes |
Relationship
Intent cw35 is looking for a relationship. |
Relationship History The longest relationship cw35 has been in was over 8 years long. |
Interests
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About Me
I like a woman who is intelligent, with a good sense of humour. Offbeat sense of humour and sarcastic wit are welcome :). Physically I guess I wouldn't say I have a specific "type". Different things are appealing about different people.
I do like to exercise but I'm not the type that expects the person I'm with to do it if it's not their thing. I feel it's the healthy thing to do for me (especially now that I'm ancient. lol). I'd prefer someone with no kids or adult kids. Don't want all the "let's hate the guy who's dating our mom" drama and I don't need the stress. I think it destroys any chance of a relationship before it can even start. Real life is never like the Brady Bunch.
(Apparently I'm not allowed to post pictures proving I do exercise even though a lot of the profiles I look at seem to have almost naked pics in them or bikini shots. There seems to be just a SLIGHT bias in this regard for some reason. I guess a 60-70 year old woman bent over in a thong in all her cottage cheese glory is a lot less offensive than me without a shirt. Go figure). Thank you POF NAZIS.
Personalities that mesh and good conversation with some common interests are usually the most attractive qualities to me. I am looking for a real relationship with one honest person who is willing to devote the time to making it work. I don't believe in flings or one night stands. Sex without attachment or some sort of deeper connection isn't something I'm interested in. I'm very open to conversation with mature level headed people, so if you feel like emailing me don't be shy.(and please don't be a 40+ woman who's in denial and only willing to date people 10 years younger minimum, which seems to be the case in about 75% of the women's profiles I'm reading. Seriously, it's like every 38+ year old will go 1 year older but 20 years younger. Amazing, the amount of deluded, egotistical people there are on here when most of those women actually look 10 years OLDER, not younger. Those profiles are good for quite the laugh though and I'm sure these people will still be wondering why they don't have a meaningful relationship 10 years from now. I doubt all the 20 year old boys are going to be turned on by the skin flaps under your arms and the fact your bras look like they're probably a size 36 long but you can keep telling yourself that. Funny how guys are perverted pigs if we do the same.) Women know who they want to talk to so if you've viewed me and didn't email me I'll assume I'm not your type or you're one of the morons I just described and I've offended you(in which case thank you for NEVER talking to me). I will send an email first very rarely since most women say they have no problem contacting first if they like what they see and getting "unread/deleted" 99.9% of the time after sending a thoughtful email gets old REALLY fast. I get that only about 3 percent of the men on here can meet the list of physical and mental requirements needed by even the most hideous of women in the online dating world but a response once every year or so would be great.
I have a wide variety of interests that range from artistic to nerdy to outdoorsy (is that a word?). I'm a passionate person in almost everything I do and can be opinionated about certain things (should have noticed that by now) but I'm a good listener and value my partner's opinions as well. I like a wide variety of music and always keep an ear out for new things I may be interested in. I don't find too many current artists appealing (there seems to be a complete lack of originality and real musicians for the most part)and I don't find dance music or hip hop appealing due to it's (mostly)lack of musical talent, crassness and lack of creativity. I'm fond of classic rock, older R&B, funk and soul music and some rap if it actually contains any meaning and doesn't just repeat the words "yeaa", "wave your hands in the air", or support spousal abuse and treating women like garbage as if it's some sort of recreational activity.
I understand that there must be an initial attraction, but I'm not the type of person that believes in instant "magic" when meeting someone new. If you're one of the zillion people on here that say you'll only give someone a chance if you feel an "instant connection" you are SADLY deluded and immature. That kind of thinking is simplistic and only indicates physical attraction (really knowing someone and if you match takes a lot longer than 3 minutes) and usually leads to a shallow affair not a meaningful relationship. I think magic can only happen after knowing someone and being comfortable with them. If you are the type that's chasing some sort of perfect ideal or "love at first sight" we won't match because no one ever lives up to the expectations of people who have this unrealistic ideal and you will ALWAYS find something wrong with every person you meet.
So after all the profile blabbing and all the checklists and the song and dance, I think it all just boils down to one simple thing that's desired (by most of us I think) but is the most difficult thing to attain: To be in love. To find someone who, when you see that person every day for the rest of your life, you can't imagine living it without them.
(Putting this out there since it seems to be a big problem on here. Please don't make first contact with me if you're just playing games and aren't ACTUALLY interested in talking to me. It's not only strange, it's confusing and I don't really get why someone with no interest in saying more than 4 words to me would do that. If you think you have the attention span to actually get to know someone politely and are looking for an actual relationship feel free to email me. I wouldn't bother to put this here but it happens about 9 out of every 10 times someone makes contact with me for no logical reason that I've been able to figure out. I'm also not sure why people who don't have "intimate encounter" selected are putting "want to date but nothing serious" in the new "intent" box because it basically means the same thing. It's very misleading if you're looking for someone to have a committed relationship with.)
I do like to exercise but I'm not the type that expects the person I'm with to do it if it's not their thing. I feel it's the healthy thing to do for me (especially now that I'm ancient. lol). I'd prefer someone with no kids or adult kids. Don't want all the "let's hate the guy who's dating our mom" drama and I don't need the stress. I think it destroys any chance of a relationship before it can even start. Real life is never like the Brady Bunch.
(Apparently I'm not allowed to post pictures proving I do exercise even though a lot of the profiles I look at seem to have almost naked pics in them or bikini shots. There seems to be just a SLIGHT bias in this regard for some reason. I guess a 60-70 year old woman bent over in a thong in all her cottage cheese glory is a lot less offensive than me without a shirt. Go figure). Thank you POF NAZIS.
Personalities that mesh and good conversation with some common interests are usually the most attractive qualities to me. I am looking for a real relationship with one honest person who is willing to devote the time to making it work. I don't believe in flings or one night stands. Sex without attachment or some sort of deeper connection isn't something I'm interested in. I'm very open to conversation with mature level headed people, so if you feel like emailing me don't be shy.(and please don't be a 40+ woman who's in denial and only willing to date people 10 years younger minimum, which seems to be the case in about 75% of the women's profiles I'm reading. Seriously, it's like every 38+ year old will go 1 year older but 20 years younger. Amazing, the amount of deluded, egotistical people there are on here when most of those women actually look 10 years OLDER, not younger. Those profiles are good for quite the laugh though and I'm sure these people will still be wondering why they don't have a meaningful relationship 10 years from now. I doubt all the 20 year old boys are going to be turned on by the skin flaps under your arms and the fact your bras look like they're probably a size 36 long but you can keep telling yourself that. Funny how guys are perverted pigs if we do the same.) Women know who they want to talk to so if you've viewed me and didn't email me I'll assume I'm not your type or you're one of the morons I just described and I've offended you(in which case thank you for NEVER talking to me). I will send an email first very rarely since most women say they have no problem contacting first if they like what they see and getting "unread/deleted" 99.9% of the time after sending a thoughtful email gets old REALLY fast. I get that only about 3 percent of the men on here can meet the list of physical and mental requirements needed by even the most hideous of women in the online dating world but a response once every year or so would be great.
I have a wide variety of interests that range from artistic to nerdy to outdoorsy (is that a word?). I'm a passionate person in almost everything I do and can be opinionated about certain things (should have noticed that by now) but I'm a good listener and value my partner's opinions as well. I like a wide variety of music and always keep an ear out for new things I may be interested in. I don't find too many current artists appealing (there seems to be a complete lack of originality and real musicians for the most part)and I don't find dance music or hip hop appealing due to it's (mostly)lack of musical talent, crassness and lack of creativity. I'm fond of classic rock, older R&B, funk and soul music and some rap if it actually contains any meaning and doesn't just repeat the words "yeaa", "wave your hands in the air", or support spousal abuse and treating women like garbage as if it's some sort of recreational activity.
I understand that there must be an initial attraction, but I'm not the type of person that believes in instant "magic" when meeting someone new. If you're one of the zillion people on here that say you'll only give someone a chance if you feel an "instant connection" you are SADLY deluded and immature. That kind of thinking is simplistic and only indicates physical attraction (really knowing someone and if you match takes a lot longer than 3 minutes) and usually leads to a shallow affair not a meaningful relationship. I think magic can only happen after knowing someone and being comfortable with them. If you are the type that's chasing some sort of perfect ideal or "love at first sight" we won't match because no one ever lives up to the expectations of people who have this unrealistic ideal and you will ALWAYS find something wrong with every person you meet.
So after all the profile blabbing and all the checklists and the song and dance, I think it all just boils down to one simple thing that's desired (by most of us I think) but is the most difficult thing to attain: To be in love. To find someone who, when you see that person every day for the rest of your life, you can't imagine living it without them.
(Putting this out there since it seems to be a big problem on here. Please don't make first contact with me if you're just playing games and aren't ACTUALLY interested in talking to me. It's not only strange, it's confusing and I don't really get why someone with no interest in saying more than 4 words to me would do that. If you think you have the attention span to actually get to know someone politely and are looking for an actual relationship feel free to email me. I wouldn't bother to put this here but it happens about 9 out of every 10 times someone makes contact with me for no logical reason that I've been able to figure out. I'm also not sure why people who don't have "intimate encounter" selected are putting "want to date but nothing serious" in the new "intent" box because it basically means the same thing. It's very misleading if you're looking for someone to have a committed relationship with.)
First Date
Getting to know one another. Maybe do something fun and casual. Talk, talk and more talk.
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