This is a tough one...as it really depends on the interests of the person I am dating. As an ice breaker, I would start off with a wine tasting and then try a new restaurant with a quiet and comfortable atmosphere, so we could get to know one another more intimately.
If all goes well, and neither one of us gets anything stuck in our teeth :)...its off to see a local band.
OK...those are the basics. There would also be other nice surprises sprinkled in as well...but I can't reveal all of my secrets! You will have to join me to find out the rest.