41 year old looking for something pleasant and uncomplicated. I am single and employed. My priority at this moment in life is my young son and my job, so am not especially interested in a relationship right now. Looking for sexually confident women with needs that I can meet while getting some of mine met as well. So I'm mostly seeking friends with benefits for now, respectful clean and fun, but light on emotional attachments. STD free and seek same. Looks are not everything but there needs be some physical chemistry. Prefer to exchange recent pics and meet, etc., before going further. Can be discreet.