Okay time to revamp this crap. I have been around the block. I have been with butches and femmes. I have come to that age where I believe sexuality is fluid. It doesn't matter who I'm with, if there's a flow, I go with it. To sum up who I am in a box is difficult so I will try to give you the basics, the things that matter.
I have a decent work ethic. I was raised to think for myself. Despite coming from a strict Christian household, I do not share the same religious views as my family. I still believe in some traditional values like family comes first, respect your elders, be mindful of what you say and do in front of children and try to set a good example. I try my best not to be judgmental of others. I believe education is very important. I believe in equality for everyone.
Despite the fact that I lead an "alternative" lifestyle, I have a moral code. While I believe gays should be allowed to marry, I still believe in the sanctity of marriage, such as being faithful and loyal and honest and devoted to one person and one person only. And if I do get married, I believe it should be until the day I die. I don't judge people for getting divorced (I understand that people change and are better off going their separate ways) but that is not an experience I want in my life.
I have so many different interests and hobbies that if we do not share something in common, it doesn't mean that I don't like it, usually only that I haven't experienced it yet. I no longer have a "type" because people are so varied that you cannot base a relationship on looks alone. What I look for is someone who shares the same values as I do. I am a romantic at heart and believe in showing my appreciation for the one I am with.
While I enjoy working on motorcycles and landscaping I'm a nerd at heart. Sometimes I think I was born in the wrong decade. I love any and all things circa 1940's, i.e. World War 2 history, pin up girls and smoky jazz/noire music. I've always wanted to meet someone like Lauren Bacall in "To Have and Have Not" or "The Big Sleep."
If this sounds like something you would be interested in then go ahead and hit me up. Even if we don't click I will always be honest with you; and if you are honest with me then you will have my respect.