I have a wonderful life, all that's missing is the right man with which to share it. I pay my own bills, own my house and car. I have a great job and close friends I've had a longtime; some since grade school. That being said, I'm a very old school romantic. I want a man to be my friend, lover, and confidant. I believe in respect and in true, passionate love. Someone with whom I can share everything. I have been told I am the kindest person, with a tender heart. I'm currently working on my PhD so I don't get to meet people, so I thought this might work.
"I may sound old-fashioned, but I want to think all women should be treated like I want my wife, daughters, and granddaughters to be treated. I notice today that good manners—like standing up when a woman enters the room, helping a woman with her coat, letting her enter an elevator first, taking her arm to cross the street—are sometimes considered unnecessary or a throwback...no woman is offended by politeness." —Frank Sinatra
I read a lot and I'm a bit of a nerd. I play video games and watch way too many films. It was my minor in college, so it's justified.
So what am I looking for? Honest. Understanding. A good heart. Everything else is a bonus. :)
I can be a little shy at first, but that wears off quickly.
And, as this seems to be more important than intelligence and a good heart/soul, I am overweight. I am working on it. And by working on it, I mean I hit the gym 3 times a week, regularly. It took a while to gain it, it's going to take a while to lose it. So, if all you can see is the shell that I'm temporarily in, I'm probably not the right woman for you. If you can see my soul and know that's what matters, let's talk :)
I am totally up for suggestions, creativity is always a plus! As much as I LOVE films, they don't make for good first dates. ;)
To send a message to dieselfan45 you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age between 21 and 38.
Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
You must have a picture to contact this user.
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke