TIME FOR A PROFILE UPDATE!
It seems that Im still being somehow misunderstood, thought I was clear enough here, but you know, men will tend to filter out what they dont want to know and somehow bend the truth into what they do want.. ;)
Recently I took on some advice to cut back my "dont wants" in here, to appear less bitter and resentful.. funny thing is, I wasnt bitter & resentful til I changed it, HAH!, cos then I started getting BOMBARDED with what I DIDNT WANT!
Being smarter than the average bear, I realise that men have nooo idea what you want if you dont tell them.. and they dont know what they're doing wrong if you don't tell them, & just go on doing whatever, to other women, & then wonder why women get cross with them? Indeed, ex hub used to turn up with his mobile to show me the shocking abusive sms from women.. hahahaaaa..
...and being smarter than the average bear, and partly because I was so trained in my profession a long time ago, I know how to pick up on the things that DONT ADD UP.. so not only is it pointless lying to me, it's absolutely needless.. I do know "what goes on", I seriously dont expect to meet "Mr Right" (again?) at this stage of my life, nor does it worry me really..
Seriously, I have lost about 3-4 years of dating life through a very severe skin allergy, now that Im well, I just want to enjoy myself a bit, & hopefully enjoy the odd good friendship with a man like I used to.
Im not at all a jealous possessive or overly suspicious and vindictive person.. quite the opposite.. I do however expect the same consideration, reliability and respect that I give to others..
A great sense of humour (like mine!), an easy going nature (me again!) would be greatly appreciated.. over time Ive learned that it's pretty hard to find all that together with a hot body, so Ive had to compromise.. Im not attracted to overly hairy and stocky builds.. There.. stuck that in nicely at the end, & hopefully I dont get harrassed by old, stocky, hairy, monobrowed bald dudes like I did on that other site. Well, Im just saying its not gonna be... o.o
Oh, and anyone suffering from insecurity, chauvinism, i.e. having to "show the little woman who's boss" all the time, will be most bitterly disappointed in me!
Ok, back to the old profile..
Seriously thinking of leaving POF, since the owner has decided that we may not communicate with anyone younger or older by 14 years +
I cant even communicate with people I already KNOW in here, or in hard rock/metal music scene in Melbourne, for sake of pleasant chit chat bout common interests and mutual friends.. Bah..
...and now POF are sending me "matches" of age 60+.. >.
OK... Friendship, honesty & respect.. Ive been married (divorced 10 years), Im not anxious to meet "husband number 2", rather just enjoy some pleasant male company.. Generally, I have had such friendships which have lasted for months or years, Im not the type to go into full blown relationships & then have a big blow up! I seem to be a fairly typical Gemini person, so I dont have those intense feelings.. I can easily laugh at myself, and deal with everyday annoyances by finding some humour in almost anything..
What Im looking for... For a start, someone with a photo not hidden by sunglasses and cap..! My photo is recent, hope yours is too!
No druggies, alcos, heavy smokers or crooks. No scammers. No sociopaths. Not too much to ask?
INSTRUCTIONS (for men with hats & sunglasses or no photo..) TO PUT YOUR PHOTO ON POF
1. take photo with phone camera by holding out in front of face, do not wear sunglasses or hat which obscures FACE!.
2. send photo to your own email address instead of a phone number.
3. open email & save picture to a folder you will remember, such as "pictures" or just to desktop.
4. Follow download instructions in POF - click "browse" & find your photo on your pc.
Oh well, if I cant lie about my age because I dont want to be contacted by men that POF thinks are better suited, i.e. men over 50, then I may have to leave.. I have same profile name elsewhere.. :P :P :P *thumbs nose at POF*