OK... Friendship, honesty & respect.. Ive been married (divorced since 2003), Im not anxious to meet "husband number 2", rather just enjoy some pleasant male company.. Generally, I have had such friendships which have lasted for months or years, Im not the type to go into full blown relationships & then have a big blow up! I am not an all or nothing, black or white type at all.. I seem to be a fairly typical Gemini person, so I dont have those intense feelings.. I can easily laugh at myself, and deal with everyday annoyances by finding some humour in almost anything..
What Im looking for... For a start, someone with a photo NOT hidden by sunglasses and cap..! My photo is recent, hope yours is too!
N.B. Partly because I was so trained in my profession a long time ago, I know how to pick up on the things that DONT ADD UP.. so not only is it pointless lying to me, it's absolutely needless.. I do know "what goes on", I seriously dont expect to meet "Mr Right" (again?) at this stage of my life, nor does it worry me really.. but yes, hiding face behind sunnies and cap is quite a giveaway..
No druggies, alcos, heavy smokers or crooks. No scammers. No sociopaths. Not too much to ask?
Im not at all a jealous possessive or overly suspicious and vindictive person.. quite the opposite.. I do however expect the same consideration, reliability and respect that I give to others..
A great sense of humour (like mine!), an easy going nature (me again!) would be greatly appreciated.. over time Ive learned that it's pretty hard to find all that together with a hot body, so Ive had to compromise.. Im not really attracted to overly furry and stocky builds.. There.. stuck that in nicely at the end, & hopefully I dont get harrassed by old, stocky, monobrowed beer bellied rough as guts bald dudes in mails. That happens a lot :-/ Well, Im just saying its not gonna be... o.o
Oh, and anyone suffering from insecurity, chauvinism, i.e. having to "show the little woman who's boss" all the time, will be most bitterly disappointed in me! I'm very easy to get along with, but I don't take others' foibles personally.. Anyone trying to dominate will not last 5 minutes. Haven't been there.. not doing it!
Another N.B. POF decided a while back that nobody can contact another of more than 13 years age difference.. Bizarre!! Quite galling for me.. however, I don't want to switch to any of the one night stand sites or applications. I don't do that. ;-)
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Meet in a public place. Chat, laugh, eat and/or drink, laugh some more.