Real relationships are not about what you can do for each other but how you are together and how you enhance each other. A role can be a limit. Most of us are more multi-faceted than that. I'm looking for a full relationship that is allowed to flourish from a friendship first. Let's take the time to get to know each other.
I'd like to meet someone with a childlike wonder of the world and the ability to play and laugh, who believes age is a state of mind, not a sentence. I love to dance and would like someone who also enjoys it. My interests are varied and include art, children, reading, traveling, walking or hiking, I'm semi-retired and still have committments through the week but my time is more flexible. Conversation should be equal sharing, asking and answering questions. Evasive answers are a red flag as is expecting only a passive listener. Chemistry is a start. Interaction is a continuance. For me chemistry starts with intelligence and interest. I'm very aware of facial expressions so your photo is important to give a clue to your essential personality. Are you upbeat, quirky, funny, romantic? Are you an introvert or an extrovert. I am an extrovert. I'm also really visual so a clear view of your face matters to me.
I'm sorry, I can't ride straddle seats so motorcycles are out. Not particularly interested in sports either.
Showing your interests is great, showing your true self is better. We only get one chance to make a first impression. I'm pretty candid. I prefer honesty to dissembling. Hidden agendas, drama and head games are pointless. Please converse rather than running into a monologue or being so monosyllabic that it's like walking through knee deep mud to learn about you. It wouldn't hurt if you showed as much interest in getting to know me as I might you. That's an important part of building a relationship. Don't assume you know about me without asking. Assume nothing about each other, discuss it. Skype conversations and phone conversations can be a good way to get acquainted and determine the genuine nature of the other person. The immediate impression needs substance if there is to be a repeat.
I like intelligence, literacy, humor, outgoing personalities and varied interests. A life that's a book rather than a sound byte. I'm baffled by the attitude that someone is looking for someone to grow old with. How about someone to enjoy this age with? Love in all it's facets enhances life to the fullest. Sharing the adventure could be grand. I can be a lot of fun but don't intend to fall into serial dating, nor am I looking for one night stands. I am looking for a relationship with a like minded person who wants to be best friends. A relationship with a solid friendship can withstand a lot over time. Passion without friendship and love is the empty scratching of an itch that only comes back.
Issues of faith and spirituality are too personal for a discussion in a profile and should only occur after enough communication to know there is mutual respect. It could prove interesting. I also don't believe this is the place to discuss my family except to say that I have no dependents at this time.
Someplace public that is agreeable to both. If you care to meet I'd prefer to set a time and place for just that. "Maybe, if you show up here..." just doesn't cut it for me. Thanks.
I am not comfortable giving out my phone number early in communication for security reasons. Be prepared to show yourself through messages for more than a day or two of writing. Patience is a virtue!
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