Creative, funny guy who's picky about his music, into exotic flavors, open-minded about life, and looking to connect with people on a variety of levels. I like to cook, I like to laugh -- and I find both of those things go better when there are others involved.
You want situations where you can connect to people and find out what they're like without boring them to death with interrogation. Dates should be *fun* -- you should end up doing things that are new and different. I like fancy meals and movies as much as anyone, but I think you can tell a lot more about a person if you go to a big bookstore and see how many science fiction novels you can put in the self-help section before the manager asks you to leave.