About Me
Once again I've decided to re-activate my profile. I deactivated it for a while because I was focusing on my job and didn't really have the time or energy for this site. Truthfully I've been on this site for a while and was getting kind of tired of it.
Even though I don't know you I can imagine you are probably a little bit (or a lot) like me. Yes - There are plenty of times when I'm quite content at just being all by myself doing whatever. You know - going about my day to day life and enjoying every little thing about it. I seem to be very happy being single at times and not in a big rush to be dating. But then there are also plenty of times when I see someone I pass by and I find them attractive or I see a cute couple walking along holding hands laughing or I'm watching a movie or TV and that's when the the loneliness hits like a tonne of bricks in the chest. Leaving that feeling of unhappy emptiness where it strikes you. Even though most of the time I am very happy and content with my life, like you, I would like to have more and to be able to share it with someone. I would like to have that feeling that there is someone I can relax around, be myself and love unconditionally as they love me. Someone I can spend the good and bad times with. Someone that makes my eyes open wide with excitement when I see them every time and hopefully I do the same to them. I want to experience that 'happy cry' when the emotional joy just overwhelms you thinking about how much you care about someone and that they care for you the same way. That being said I know that love is something that has to grow over time. I guess I am just a stupid romantic thinking that there can also be love at first sight too. I forget that sometimes you have to walk when you really want to run and fly. So I am more than happy with friends at first. I like to have a lot of friends.
I like to think of myself as a normal person who likes to put common sense at the top of his list of skills. My number one rule in life is "Don't do stupid things!!". It's a simple rule and I have found that it has served me well. But I'm still single.
Yes, I've been on the site for a while now. I've chatted with a few people here and there, met one or two for coffee but that's about it. There are people I see and would like to talk to but I stop myself thinking I'm going make a fool out of myself. Rule number one can be both a good rule and a bad rule.
I have a great job with the University that I love. As well as that on the side I am a freelance graphic designer. I take care of myself and I like dress well. I have an addiction for coats and shoes though. Yes, that's strange. I'll give you that.
Even though I like to think of myself as a regular person I am still a bit of a geek. Sometimes I am proud of it and other times a little ashamed (damn you society!!). Knowledge and understanding as much as humanly possible about everyone and everything known to man is important to me. I also love technology and gadgets. I can be quiet to start out sometimes because I might be nervous but usually it's because I'm just curious. I love to listen more than I like to talk. I am pretty much willing to try anything 2 or 3 times to see if I like it. I'd have to describe myself as very passionate about certain things. I believe in fairness and supporting the underdog. I have a very liberal attitude about most things, but I can still be very conservative about other things. I will always try to keep an open mind and I am willing to admit when I am wrong. I enjoy having a philosophical chat one minute and a political one the next. I also have a very dry sarcastic sense of humor, but I still love to tell stupid poop jokes with my niece and nephews (who are very very important to me). I always say whats on my mind. I don't believe in playing stupid games. Scrabble is not a stupid game. Don't ask me what I think unless you really want to hear it.
When you get down to it I'm really just a pretty normal person and I pride myself in that. Part of that is I really take pride in the fact that I'm not a jerk. I still hold doors open for people, don't cut them off in traffic and I always am polite. At times I can be confident and assertive when needed. Other times I have antics and thrive on excitement. I can be overly self analyzing one minute and care free the next. I tend to live in the moment but I know where I've come from. I really want to travel and see what is over that horizon that we have so much of here.
I don't smoke. Never have. Never will.
I tend to lean to the more artsy type of personality in people.
I find that I make jokes when people are being to serious all the time.
I am not really into sports, but I will watch the occasional game of football or hockey.
I LOVE a good thunderstorm and the smell of rain.
I will frolic in the rain if the mood is right
I can not dance to save my life. I've been told I can... but I don't believe them
I don't drink coffee. Not much of a drinker of alcohol either
I am a real night owl and not a morning person
I enjoy drives and walks. Usually in that order.
Can't think of anything else right now. Oh yeah, I like soup.
If you have any questions, just ask me.
First Date
First date? I can't say without knowing a bit about you. But I hope it would be fun and exciting! Though I tend to think those things usually go together. Whose ever heard of boring and exciting? Fun and dull?
When? that also depends on you. I understand that women tend to get pounced on by the creepy guys on these dating websites. So I'm not in a big rush. I want you to feel comfortable with me before we meet. So that might be after a while of e-mailing, maybe talking on the phone eventually. You know just to prove that I'm normal and take things at a normal comfortable pace. Or it could be after a few emails.
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