A first date? This is so subjective. It depends on so many things. But lets say ideally, I would want to meet up with my date out of doors, lets say at an art fair. We would stroll around the area, discussing our likes and dislikes in general as well as in the art surrounding us. Then we would get a bite to eat at the most unique resteraunt around. This is for two reasons: 1) The food would be worth talking about and 2) If the food sucks we can use it to throw at people at the art fair ;) The evening would eventually wrap up as evenings do, perhaps after some dessert (I am a sucker for dessert) and then the rest would depend on how the night had gone so far.