First dates to me are the most important, do you like me? do you not? are we keeping the conversation flowing? are we laughing because its funny or because we are so nervous? where are we going and what are we doing? so many firsts. I guess My perfect first date would be having a cozy cook out just you and me sitting on my deck or yours in the cool evening breeze talking about our lives and feeling a connection. If we click then everything should fall in place, if we don't I have made a new friend.