| About | Non-Smoker with A Few Extra Pounds body type | City | Guelph Ontario | |
| Details | 30 year old Man, 6' 2" (188 cm), Other Religion | Ethnicity | Caucasian Virgo with Red hair |
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| I am Seeking a | Woman | For | Dating | |
| Needs Test | Not Completed | Chemistry | View his chemistry results | |
| Do you drink? | No | Do you want children? | Does not want children | |
| Marital Status | Single | Do you do drugs? | No | |
| Pets | Cat | Eye Color | Hazel | |
| Profession | Do you have children? | No | ||
| Education | Some college | Do you have a car? | N/A |
Relationship
Intent Beholder is actively seeking a relationship. |
Relationship History The longest relationship Beholder has been in was under 1 year. |
Interests
About Me
Update: Since coming up with intelligent, (at least marginally) clever messages is difficult enough, I've decided I'm going to use the "favourites" function now as well; if PoF tells you I've added you, it means I am interested in talking, I just couldn't come up with a concept from your profile to compose a decent message I was satisfied with (and I'm not just doing it randomly.)
If you get that notification, and you'd like to talk, send me a really brief message (or just do what I did), and I'll get in touch.
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If you don't read my profile, I won't respond - I'm only looking for people willing to take the time to get to know me.
Now, I'm going to start with something of a confession. I'm not too proud of this, but: I watched one of those pick-up artist instructional/seminar videos.
To be honest, 95% of what I saw just made me feel ill, but it did certainly cement in my mind what I'm not going to do: I'm not going to partake in the myriad of calculated behaviors designed to construct a facade of "social value."
In fact, the only thing I agreed with was the need to make it clear that you're "very picky, and won't settle" - that is actually true for me, just not in the way they intended; I just have no patience for "typical" women.
I'm not particularly concerned with a girl's race, height, weight, religion, education, employment, or age (admittedly too much of an age difference might make dating a little weird, but hey - I'll talk to anyone), but I'm picky all the same: I'm looking for someone with substance.
Who I am:
INFP [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/INFP], reformed nice-guy, and an atypical male. If you take only one thing away from this, let that be it: if you have stereotypes about how "all guys act", or how "all guys think", I won't fit them (and find assumptions like that offensive.)
Favourite books, movies, shows, music and food
(I'm leaving the interests filled in at the top to help with PoF's limited search options, but this is still true.)
I could fill this out with giant lists of things I like, but I'm not going to - it's basically irrelevant.
Don't get me wrong, I can discuss all these things for hours on end (heck, if I get started on American remakes of foreign films, I may never shut up...), but taste in entertainment isn't a good reason to (or not to) get to know someone.
As for food, I really don't know how to respond when I get a message that's nothing but "You like sushi?" (Seriously.)
On a typical Friday night I am:
How about Wednesday? I have a typical Wednesday night... pub trivia!
Friends, family, bad food, and a little bit of brain exercise - what's not to love?
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here:
I can't grow a cool beard.
You should message me if:
You:
-are intelligent (and this is by far the most important thing.) This doesn't necessarily mean educated, but you need to have interests and passions to talk about, and enjoy learning new things that aren't covered in the literature of the grocery checkout line. (Also, no matter how intelligent or attractive, if you type anything like this [http://www.lamebook.com/the-terrible-type-6/terr1-2/], it makes my brain hurt, and I won't respond.) Bonus points if you're creative or nerdy, too.
-understand that, just because I'm a sensitive/romantic/caring/whatever -type dude, it doesn't mean I'm a doormat/pushover/wuss
-are flawed, and have gone through some hardships in life. People who have breezed through their lives with everything working in their favour may well be perfectly nice, but I don't think they'll ever really be able to understand me.
-don't think the key to finding someone lies in describing their traits and precisely how they have to look, like you're ordering toppings from the "build-a-man" counter at Subway; this includes things like "I only like white guys" or "you have to be at least this tall". I'm tired of women who only want to know me because they confuse attributes as qualities - this goes double when their justification is something as meaningless as a choice of footwear. It's just shallow and shortsighted (...no pun intended.)
* Offensive, perspective-shifted example available upon request
... and of course, your world view isn't reminiscent of listening to Beaker [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EAtBki0PsC0]
Now that you've read my profile (or at the very least skipped to the bottom), when contacting me, make sure you include the word "pudding" in the subject line of your message - if I don't see this, I'll just delete it and move on.
If you get that notification, and you'd like to talk, send me a really brief message (or just do what I did), and I'll get in touch.
--
If you don't read my profile, I won't respond - I'm only looking for people willing to take the time to get to know me.
Now, I'm going to start with something of a confession. I'm not too proud of this, but: I watched one of those pick-up artist instructional/seminar videos.
To be honest, 95% of what I saw just made me feel ill, but it did certainly cement in my mind what I'm not going to do: I'm not going to partake in the myriad of calculated behaviors designed to construct a facade of "social value."
In fact, the only thing I agreed with was the need to make it clear that you're "very picky, and won't settle" - that is actually true for me, just not in the way they intended; I just have no patience for "typical" women.
I'm not particularly concerned with a girl's race, height, weight, religion, education, employment, or age (admittedly too much of an age difference might make dating a little weird, but hey - I'll talk to anyone), but I'm picky all the same: I'm looking for someone with substance.
Who I am:
INFP [http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/INFP], reformed nice-guy, and an atypical male. If you take only one thing away from this, let that be it: if you have stereotypes about how "all guys act", or how "all guys think", I won't fit them (and find assumptions like that offensive.)
Favourite books, movies, shows, music and food
(I'm leaving the interests filled in at the top to help with PoF's limited search options, but this is still true.)
I could fill this out with giant lists of things I like, but I'm not going to - it's basically irrelevant.
Don't get me wrong, I can discuss all these things for hours on end (heck, if I get started on American remakes of foreign films, I may never shut up...), but taste in entertainment isn't a good reason to (or not to) get to know someone.
As for food, I really don't know how to respond when I get a message that's nothing but "You like sushi?" (Seriously.)
On a typical Friday night I am:
How about Wednesday? I have a typical Wednesday night... pub trivia!
Friends, family, bad food, and a little bit of brain exercise - what's not to love?
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here:
I can't grow a cool beard.
You should message me if:
You:
-are intelligent (and this is by far the most important thing.) This doesn't necessarily mean educated, but you need to have interests and passions to talk about, and enjoy learning new things that aren't covered in the literature of the grocery checkout line. (Also, no matter how intelligent or attractive, if you type anything like this [http://www.lamebook.com/the-terrible-type-6/terr1-2/], it makes my brain hurt, and I won't respond.) Bonus points if you're creative or nerdy, too.
-understand that, just because I'm a sensitive/romantic/caring/whatever -type dude, it doesn't mean I'm a doormat/pushover/wuss
-are flawed, and have gone through some hardships in life. People who have breezed through their lives with everything working in their favour may well be perfectly nice, but I don't think they'll ever really be able to understand me.
-don't think the key to finding someone lies in describing their traits and precisely how they have to look, like you're ordering toppings from the "build-a-man" counter at Subway; this includes things like "I only like white guys" or "you have to be at least this tall". I'm tired of women who only want to know me because they confuse attributes as qualities - this goes double when their justification is something as meaningless as a choice of footwear. It's just shallow and shortsighted (...no pun intended.)
* Offensive, perspective-shifted example available upon request
... and of course, your world view isn't reminiscent of listening to Beaker [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EAtBki0PsC0]
Now that you've read my profile (or at the very least skipped to the bottom), when contacting me, make sure you include the word "pudding" in the subject line of your message - if I don't see this, I'll just delete it and move on.
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