v!v!d: .....
About
Non-smoker with A Few Extra Pounds
City
Jersey....staten island......., New York
Details
56 year old Woman, 5' 3" (160cm), Catholic
Ethnicity
Caucasian Scorpio with Blonde hair
Intent
v!v!d is looking for a relationship.
Education
Some university
Personality
Geek
Profession
Im not homeless







I am Seeking a Man For Long term
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry Not Completed
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? No
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Pets Cat Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? My children are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious



About Me
..... not here to play, not interested in a friend with benefits(monogomy is very important),fiercely loyal, dont share my man, and very rarely has a blonde moment. I'm not very tolerant of chaotic situations and drama, and make my exit pretty fast when that happens. I'm opinionated, a bit stubborn, loyal, loving and picky about certain things (men).I'm easy to laugh and very protective of those I love.
Not impressed with $$$, what prestigious schools you attended, how extensively you traveled, how many toys you have accumulated, or how handsome you think you are. Looking for someone who...
when our eyes meet -- I can't catch my breath (this has nothing to do with looks). Its that elusive chemistry.... My heart, my soul, my protector.
....you will have lots of heart, possess integrity, non smoker, probably rides a Harley, more comfortable in jeans, t-shirt and boots. Compassionate.......sensitive.......motivated/driven.....patient......FAITHFUL. A Man I can respect and admire and lust for.....and who makes MY Heart Smile. .. A sense of humor, confidence, personality, a freshly showered body and strong hands doesn't hurt either. I love my alphas diluted with a little beta.
I will feel excitement yet comfort when I'm with you. Respect also means a lot to you and looks come second. As you get older, beauty moves from your face to your heart. Its not what you look at...its what you see. If you like to dress to impress, I am NOT for you.
Caucasian PREFERRED
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My life is pretty uncomplicated, and I desire the same in a partner. Hopefully we are all now a little older and a lot wiser-- and humbled by our past experiences. I am now looking for forever. I'm OK with being alone...but that doesn't mean I want to be alone. I take relationships and intimacy very serious. So when I do meet that special someone, he will know he has someone that everyone else hasn't.

Please remember WHY we call them "EX"..... I wish to enjoy my life with someone, not pay for another woman's sins. It's normal to have a few scars, but I have no interest in hearing about your messy divorce, the one that got away, or anything about the women you've met on here, and how much $$ dates are costing you. REALLY. Don't let an experience with the wrong person miss the reward of being
loved by the right person-- It takes strength to love, but it takes courage to be loved. I have learned that you must be great friends to continue on to anything else. Remember.... love doesn't hurt, love doesn't lie, love doesn't cheat, and love doesn't keep you second guessing.
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I know this is loooong, so........
YOU MIGHT WANT TO STOP, TAKE A BREAK, GET SOMETHING TO DRINK OR STRETCH YOUR LEGS NOW
I have been lucky enough to talk to some of the nicest people on this site. You are genuine and have beautiful souls. You deserve to find exactly what you seek and I wish you lived closer. We all know, distance could be a problem.... I need to be able to see you, smell you, touch you, and taste you.... and I want you near. If you feel differently, prove me wrong. If I added you to my favorites, its because you caught my eye in some way (something got to me---- I like to look at you....like what you wrote , YOU ARE VERY HOT or who knows???....)It may not mean I want to meet, go out, or get naked with you ....Just accept a compliment graciously.
The people who actually read this profile and respond, are fearless---and looking for substance; and thats the type of man I need. I live by the cardinal rule in dating, that you only see one person at a time - it just feels morally right to do so. And with that said, I hope to meet someone who goes by the same rule.
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If a man is truly interested.....
NOTHING will keep him from you. And I believe that. (If I do speak with you, and I sense theres nothing going on, you're playing games, or you're just a jerko%%, I will block you so there will be no more communication. Sorry, you had your chance.) Go join the rest of the guys in the POF Romper Room.
If you think I come across as a "tuff chick", very poor observation,.... you'll never see my softer side
Guys, I respect your religious views, but please dont try to save me. (big sinner here)

First Date
Everything should just be easy and fall into place. PLEASE, you HAVE TO STOP talking about your EX!!!! NO woman wants to hear about this. You should not be here if you still have these issues. Don't live in the past, learn from it.
So....... I will keep looking until I find the man that will make my heart race when he is with me, and ache when he is gone.

My dream is that someday somebody wants to hold me for 20 minutes straight and that's all they do. They don't pull away. They don't look at your face. They don't try to kiss you. All they do is wrap you up in their arms and hold on tight, without an ounce of selfishness in it.

I usually try to reply to all respectful emails. I delete all copy and paste messages.( you're lazy and playing the numbers game). If my reply is generic and isn't personal, please dont harass me or bombard me with more emails. I'm not going to lead anyone on. Nobody deserves to be treated badly, or have their feelings hurt. I don't do young guys, I don't do women haters, GUIDOs or narcissists. I apologize to those to which I do not respond, please don't be offended. Play nice all you POF addicts(nobody will ever be good enough for you). Just keep writing to all the new innocent members who haven't figured you out yet. Good luck and God bless.
xoxo
A little advice.....if you address me as sexy, babe, hunny, or send your # in your first message, its a good way to get deleted. Dont ask for "more" pics. There are some special sites for you pervs to go to. RESPECT .
Sometimes, hearts just know....


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PLEASE BE CLOSE ENOUGH. I WILL NOT MEET "HALF-WAY". Half way is too far.
I'd rather be alone than settle.

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