Important facts (atleast pay attention here) I live with my step-mom to help care for our family friend who is disabled mentally, so I can not have friends over to hangout. There is too much craziness in the house for that & besides I need a break from it. I don't have my own car so you do need to pick me up & return me afterwards ;) lol I'm in south Everett. I keep a very busy schedule so planning a date works best rather then let's go now. Occasionally it works but not always.
* If you can't take a few minutes to get a preview of who I am & read my page then what makes you think you would want to take the time to meet me? I know it's long, sorry .... but maybe it can save us both time in the long run. All I ask of you is to not be a liar. Who wants that in any type of relationship, be friends or lovers? Not I .... maybe my honesty is too much, but I always have my story straight.
I want to meet someone that lives close by, I'm new to town and desire someone to show me around/good time(if your not local we can chat & maybe share more photos). Never hurts to make friends. I'm living with family who appreciate their privacy, so if it's a quit evening in to snuggle .... then lets enjoy our company together at your place. BTW sorry I dont have a passport, never lived close enough to the border before to need one. I lived in a desert like area called Yakima, Washington (moved here June 25th, 2014).
Don't be shy lets chat & find out about each other. PERSONALITY shines way brighter than BEAUTY! I really hope my attitude; is my most attractive feature, not my boobs (though they are nice too). Audrey Hepburn said it best, "There is more to sex appeal than just measurements. I like to be funny & friendly. Open the book before you judge it by the cover! I'm open minded, so just ask what you would like to know ;o)
Must like a big girl + size (while I work on that). May 2013 I weighed 330.8lbs & now I'm a hundred + pounds down & still working on it - so if you don't like larger then life, you better keep looking for now. When you’re a plus size woman, people like to say "yeah, she's cute in the face", as if being full figured is such a disgrace. Honey, I’m cute in the face, & I’m thick in the waist. I look good whether I’m in cotton, leather, or lace. I’m beautiful, vibrant & above all, smart! There's more to me than my weight, I also have a big heart. Yes my clothes maybe a larger size, that just means you have access to a bigger prize. We all are not self-conscious about our weight & I never have a problem getting a date. I’m a hot, sexy, curvy woman with a figure that's full!
I might be chubby but I don't like looking like a slob (unless that's what I am aiming for, somedays are lazier then others). I am not a "high maitenance" chic. Sure, I like my nails done or hair highlighted once in awhile. Though I can put my make-up on in 10 minutes & be out the door. I'm very sassy, but it's my charm. I love to laugh and smile. I have baggage, but it is my own. Never would ask you to do my laundry, only be my friend when I need a shoulder to lean on. My kids have their own lives in other towns, but 1st and formost I'm still their mom who worries about them.
* ps MORE INFO ON STEFANIE > Heck I'm already impressed if you made it this far. But before you give up, ask yourself "Is it worth reading on?" Sure is, lol you're already 1/2 way there. Maybe by the end you will want to send me a message. Are we a match?
I might look or seem like a square, but it's a bit more of a triangle. I like tattoo's but don't have any myself (I'm a chicken). Only my ears are pierced, but sometimes I see ones and think that would be cute, though have never done it. My radio station is set on Cube 93, yet I can sing along to country music - don't worry in my head only, I don't sound good out loud, lol I'm woman enough to admit my weaknesses. I prefer someone that doesn't smoke, but almost everyone I know or have been with does - if you don't mind stepping outside then we are good. High % of my friends, I have known for years (like teenagers) we have become family.
I do love a manly man, know I'm a girlie girl. My idea of camping involves a bed, yes I'm sorta city. I like electricity. How about we put in a DVD, zap popcorn (for you) fruit (for me) & stay in? Let me rest my head in your lap, hold hands just because we can or makeout like we're young again! I don't watch sports either (except Seahawks with my friends), but wouldn't stop you (maybe you're special enough to help me understand the game).
As you can tell I'm extremely wordy, there will always be some subject to discuss .... except politics & religion. I do believe in both, it's just usually an opinion I keep to myself. I may not be over educated but I'm far from dumb. Besides everyone has retarded moments, I can laugh at myself just as well as at you. "Well behaved women rarely make history" - Marilyn Monroe had a point when she said that!!
Bring humor with you during our time together. Doesn't have to be full on romantic, but desire a gentleman. Would enjoy going out to a nice dinner (doesn't mean it has to be spendy). But currently I'm eating very healthy on a strict diet (maybe we can cook dinner together, for now). So we could talk & see if we have anything in common, if there is an attraction or if it's worth a 2nd date to maybe do something else. I'm not affraid to meet in person, lets figure out a time that works best for us. Let's see where this goes????
It's hard for me to grasp the fact that we really can have a walk on the beach. Where I'm from you could skip around the sage brush. It does sound nice to watch a sunset together with a picnic, I own a basket! Boating & water sports sound like alot of fun, though I've never done much of these activities before. Been 4x4ing back in the high school days. I don't sing karaoke or drink coffee, but will watch you while I sip on my water/(drink if I'm at that phase of my diet) and enjoy the show.
Going to a movie is always great entertainment, though I need conversation. Find out if we are compatibe as friends only or a more intimate encounter. Im not trying to "put out" the minute we meet .... Why don't you try to earn that privilege!?! I'm a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets ;o) With right chemisrty we can share our secrets & desires together.
* I don't need to view your pic, infact I see what you wrote then look. But if yours is blank, I do wonder what you're hiding? Why should I give you my number .... to only have a wife call me later? No thanks, not into cheaters. So, if you are one more power to you there is ladies who don't care. Or have your girl tell me she doesn't mind ;o) that we our talking, maybe her & I will become close friends. It's fine to live a certain "lifestyle" just make sure you're both in it, before you go any further with me.