I like to hike, bike, or just be lazy. I would like someone to go to museums on the weekends with me...especially experiential art. In the summer I frequent the opera. I hate bananas in the morning. But I love pudding. Chinese food and old Kung fu movies are fantastic. I also love women.
Nice women are nice. Bad women are nice too. If you speak Spanish, I can always use the practice. The romantic ideal (think troubadourean) sickens me. I will never get married or have children. Long-standing, even lifelong, friendships sound good to me. I'm very busy and mostly I'm looking for a mutually respectful partner whom I can dote on every now and then and, occasionally cuddle with.
I don't do first dates. On second dates, however, it must either be sex or mini-golf. There is one exception - the ghost dance. If you are Native, and a ghost dancer, I will go on a first date.