Čaroděj ze severu..`*=7;+>.....
"This is my pathetic excuse for a seaworthy vessel and you're standing aboard it; so you might want to show it and me, her captain, some respect!" ~Johnny Depp. Pirates of the Caribbean. Captain Jack Sparrow.. :)
My qualities and interests are varied and many but not absolute and I'd like an-other to bounce off among other things ideas occasionally. I enjoy company with those real, respectful, fun to talk with, takes time to enjoy life, can laugh at themselves and sometimes make me laugh. Beyond that have met my share and won't suffer fools, unless worthy of pointing a finger and laughing a bit I get bored and slip out the side door.
I had lofty goals, dodged deception and lies and made good money chasing American dreams from the telcom boom to housing bust and financial crash now find it all too mundane to bother with beyond revisionist history. I'm learning to spend less time seeking answers by better understanding questioners. Currently working toward a self-designed doctorate in Paranormal-psychopathology. Extremely long story short, of all seven states of matter the highest thought wave works in the mental plane of reality, a universal plane of mind-stuff essentially responsible for function, action and reaction. You might say I'm doing my own thing reading and writing a bit sometimes between the lines. I'd like to write a book one day even if just for myself. My goals now involve freedom of movement, peace of mind and energy. I'm busy as cook, butler, chauffeur and gardener, as well as, chief of fire and maintenance in my hermit's pair-a-dice.
This may seem a tall order; however nothing matters as much as I am chemically sensitive... generally synthetic petro-chemicals everywhere and in everything make me sick.. including Rx drugs, cosmetics and food. My diet is organic as much as possible to avoid chemical residue, additives and preservatives in conventional food. I smoke organic tobacco and can't tolerate chemical tobacco smoke. If you have no idea what all this means we will probably not work well together. It would be better if you have interest, best if one has knowledge of the mysteries of foods and herbs, nutritional supplements and alternative therapies ignored by traditional western medicine.
I was married for 12 years and divorced over 20, children are grown, married, have children and live on their own. A people person in my previous life, since acquiring MCS I've lived alone over 10 years and do better when not around many people, particularly in my home. Most people don't get it at all and I would not do well if you feel you must be surrounded by friends and family. For all good intent and purpose I feel better avoiding exposure to toxic fragrance in products many won't part with. To accommodate I may be found up-wind at a gathering of family, friends or community event.
Formerly a city boy, I now live in a nice home in the woods middle of no-where. The last few years there has been no escape from new asphalt smell everywhere many find annoying but debilitating to me even in small amounts, a little here and there and I lose brilliance. If you live where there is significant pollution I may visit on a good day, but can't spend much time there. You would enjoy spending time with me away from those places and pair-a-dice may be a nice getaway for a city mouse.
I've traveled North America from Canada to southern US and Caribbean by air and cross country, but can no longer tolerate the environment around public transportation. That said, I would not do well always on the go and traveling far away to experience life. I enjoy my antique car and motorcycle for occasional day trips and would like to drive south for winters. I'd do Burning Man if we stay up-wind.
While I would like to be with a woman that feels more girly than tomboy I'm learning to expect the unexpected. I would enjoy the company of an artistic, creative, interested, interesting woman that likes a variety of activities; feels comfortable discussing, learning or teaching and open to experience new adventure. You know how to take care of yourself mentally, physically, and carry yourself to feel attractive and confident. A little lipstick or nail color is always a turn on, however I am not moved by most makeup and can not tolerate personal care products that contain artificial fragrance. I don't have as much trouble with most essential oils and many natural, non-allergenic products. I am height/weight proportionate and desire you be also.. thick in the right places ok *;-) Emphasis proportionate.
Considering all this and that, I have good perception of needs and wants and happy with whom I've become. I would like companionship and mutual admiration with one sharing complementary interests and values with real virtues and vices. You might say I'm an optimist, because I am. I'm also romantic and perfectionist... and I don't just give that away.. why I can't settle for just anyone. It would be nice if you get it and think you're a bit smarter than I think I am sometimes. For the one that understands all this welcome and for goodness sake step in! Once the barbarians are at the gate it will be too late.. ;)
"On the Frabjous Day, when the White Queen once again wears the crown. On that day, I shall Futterwacken... Vigorously!" ~Johnny Depp. Tim Burton's Alice in Wonderland. The Mad Hatter..`*=7;+>.....
Sometimes you must try something different, think of this as a fishing expedition.. :)
I may be interested and add favorites to get your attention, though when you don't show some movement in kind don't be surprised when you are released.. :)
"Well there really ain't no use in stopping what nobody never told me not to do.." ~Jack Johnson. People Watching
Enjoy the music and lyric, don't be fanatic about religion, politics, sports and who writes first. In any event it may be easier if you reconsider importances, show a bit of humor and for my curiosity please include the word ambivalent in a sentence in your first message!
"And I'll wait here a while just long enough to be sure that you didn't make a wrong turn.." ~Jack Johnson. Wrong Turn
And don't believe everything you think.. :)
"Some say to survive you need to be as mad as a hatter, which luckily I am." ~Johnny Depp. Tim Burton's Alice in Wonderland. The Mad Hatter..`*=7;+>.....
We must first agree on meeting: casual, low key, you, me, coffee or tea, something good to eat, nice little place, may be soft music, not too noisy. It will be easy to stay or move on.
I'm drawn to independent coffee shops and cafes serving homemade wholesome American and ethnic foods. I enjoy outdoor art, music, street dance and community gatherings and may try a small town bar/grill for lunch or off-night but must avoid processed foods, poor ventilation and large crowds.
"The only way to get rid of a temptation is to yield to it." ~Oscar Wilde. The Picture of Dorian Gray
Plainly and simply some things are never so plain and simple. Whatever... lol.. What can I say? :)
In addition to testing text box limits my essay is a result of critical analysis of questions, answers, hard truths and thoughts as a pre-qualification to sort serious from curious and not get caught in endless email hell. The best are just words and pictures on a screen and I may have fun with a comment or question and if there's life on-line... How do you start something? I must say without some familiarity I don't get much feeling from on-line chatter; sometimes more work than fun and long story short simply don't have energy for pen-pal cyber-acquaintance if we may never share a real conversation. Phone and meeting depend on attraction and communication or my interest will not last beyond a couple messages. So I may give you a shot and try to draw you out if you try not to waste it. I am easily distracted; a pretty picture, vague profile and tentative messages hold my attention a few minutes before becoming Who Viewed Me history. As Billy Preston once said, You gotta have somethin' if you wanna be with me! Minimum... You will need a photo or two and a few written skills... maybe a new fishing pole.. :)
"A small key opens big doors." ~Turkish proverb
Regards and blessings... go in peace.*;-)
"This is because that is and if that is not then this cannot be.." ~Thich Nhat Hanh, Mindfulness
And just for fun..
JJ plays this tune near the end of the festival at 1:21
"Yes I am a pirate, two hundred years too late... The cannons don't thunder and there's nothin' to plunder, I'm an over-forty victim of fate, arriving too late... arriving too late.." ~Jimmy Buffett - A Pirate Looks.. :)