Age: 56
Long Term
Age: 49
besonder: UGGGGG I give up SMH :/
Smokes Occasionally with A Few Extra Pounds body type
Strongs prairie, Wisconsin
52 year old Female, 5' 3" (160cm), Other
Caucasian, Pisces
besonder is looking for a relationship.
Some college
Animal Lover

Oct 1st 2011 web cam

I am Seeking a Man For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View her chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Does not want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Blond(e) Eye Color Green
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 10 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets Dog Second Language English

About Me
Generally I would not start out a profile like this however, based on emails I have been receiving lately and men who prove to be completely incapable of taking any initiative to pursue a first "in person" meeting...I feel the need to state the obvious, "Don't complain your life is lacking if you never try to make change.

1.) I DO NOT want a PEN PAL...I am hoping to spend some quality time with a great guy and see what comes of it. Know in advance.
2.) I am OK with the "friend zone" if you are.
3.) If you want a bootie call, know I am not interested in a ever becoming a call girl for any some of money.

I sleep with my window open hoping the right man will hear what my heart is saying when I am most venerable. Let's waltz on the beach while moonbeams light up the water as crickets play our song.


It's official! After 12 years of living in the 7th largest US city, I am a Cheesehead once again ;) A safe journey all the way from upscale luxury living in San Antonio,TX to country living in my lil lake retreat in the woods that is not all to far from Wisconsin Dells.

Though I dig professional men who wear Armani with college degrees, there is nothing sexier when a handsome man throws on a tool belt and keeps up with me or better yet, passes me up doing home improvements. Oh La La ;)

Spent the last 7 years being single in San Antonio. Just did not find Mr.Right. No tall handsome men there for me. Was always something; jobless, homeless, toothless, bad attitude, criminal record, hard drugs, crazy X's etc.... The worst of course being what seemed to be the perfect guy but early on I learned he was relocating or being deployed. Though chilling out now prepping for retirement, know I was super ambitious,worked hard all my life and managed to complete a fair amount of accomplishments far beyond most...any handsome gentlemen out here that have experienced similar? I totally would regret being the more successful of two as I know real men prefer to carry the torch.

Being I DIY kinda gal my celeb crush is the DIY guy Eric Stromer. Just as my own father, Eric's a great dad to his children, wonderful husband to his lovely wife Amy and he is not only vocal and musically talented, that guy is great with power tools. Nothing is sexier than working side by side with a man who looks great in a tool belt and knows his way around the workshop.

Perhaps being single in SA was meant to be. A sign of sorts? So I began my journey home to Wisconsin convinced the cheese hat still fits ;)

It's easy to find a loyal dog buy the two most difficult finds are loyal friends and a loyal mate

Touching video. Perhaps WE can LEARN something from the younger generation.
Ten most cherished hours in one man's life
July 8, 2014...his 30th birthday, accompanied by Liezl & daughter Zakiah

First Date
I'd like to meet in person and hope that we can impress each other enough to warrant an actual first official date by the following week.

If you are seeking LONG TERM and plan to meet anyone, this is actually a great video to watch. Every single person should learn what I learned long before I discovered this video.

6 (and a half) Secrets of Love



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