I was born and raised in Boston, MA, but moved here to California when my mother became ill with cancer. She passed away this year shortly after my grandmother. This is also the year I broke it off with my Fiance'. She cheated on me, and I took her back, understanding that she wasn't happy with our relationship and something needed to change. After counseling and trying to save the relationship several times she cheated again and so that was it. It has been a very interesting year of loss. I am looking for someone who does not have a record of cheating (obviously), is into reading novels (I am indeed into the Harry Potter novels although the films so far have been mediocre at best. My favorite author is Stephen King), going to the movies (huge comedy and horror fan), and going out to have fun with friends as often as possible. I am looking for someone affectionate, who is not afraid to be who they are. I am not looking for a plastic, cloned version of Paris Hilton or Tyra banks. The biggest turn-off for me is when women act ditsy and ignorant thinking they are more desirable that way. I love having political and religious conversations. I am basically looking for an intelligent, friendly, faithful, slightly geeky woman (needs to keep up with my love of Sci Fi and comics) who can love me the way I need to be loved, and be willing to recieve all it is that I have to give in a relationship.