There's no perfect plan for a first date, and everyone hates them. To save face(and time)for both, We would meet with friends somewhere casual to get a bite to eat and get to know each other. This way we'd both have the easy option of ending the date if there's no chemistry. If the chemistry is good, then we'd have to let our conversation lead us to an exciting spontaneous plan. Either something fun that evening, or an exciting second date. I don't think there really is a sure fire first date.