**Disclaimer there is no brain to mouth filter, it is just how I am built** Cant help it, its years of being an ARMY ranger that ruined my ability to BS people.
This might be a bit all over the place, but I am trying to give the ladies out there as much trivial information I can come up with so they can make an educated decision to send me a message. :)
Understand that I am a upbeat, mild mannered, somewhat happy person. I dont understand all the negativity people seem to surround themselves with these days... So, while I might say something that seems serious, usually I am just playing around. Conveying personality via text is very difficult these days, so if you can imagine a knowing smirk with each statement then you just might get me.
I sing in a band, I am pretty good, here: you can listen if you please. Then at least read on with a sense of humor and you might actually smile!
That is me, with the black and white Gibson guitar singing. That was 4 years ago or so when I was an instructor in Boston.
I have survived quite a bit including cancer... I tend to want to SMILE more than anything because life is too short. I think I am actually qualified to say that and mean it. Someone somewhere decided I was supposed to be here for some unknown reason, after all I am still ticking. Either that OR I am just one lucky son of a ****. Every minute I am here now is borrowed time after beating all the odds... I am trying to enjoy it. So join me, or not, I am still gonna have fun.
It is a woman's prerogative to change her mind, and guys will always screw it up trying to figure out how to please you.
My philosophy these days, embrace the suck that is online dating and go with it.
Uh I don't know, the last few years have been so dynamic that I don't even know what else to say at this point other than I am me, I have seen, and been through a lot, and now I would love to have someone to actually share my life with in the long term. Both the good and the bad, I have had plenty of bad, so by the law of averages alone I should be hitting a good streak any time now! :)
**Note, I enjoy texting, and just bullshitting in general.
People are the most entertaining creatures if just you observe.
I am Wacky, Intellectual, and Just Me.
You might catch me shirtless in my jeans shooting baskets with my boys or slipping along a dance floor in my Adam Derricks at some charity function. I’m the happiest guy around when the company’s good.
Fat wine - well, that is something to be experienced, not explained.
But it feels like your mouth has just discovered that texture can be fluid, and full of moment by moment surprises, its something that just touches every cell that lines the inside of your mouth, and on your tongue.
Ok, maybe it can be explained! It's like slow lovemaking, made out of grapes.
Well that is all fun but I also like to fish, hunt, and eat small dogs korean style. MMM
When a man is interested in a woman, quite automatically he treats her the way he would want to be treated. In many cases, that is not what a woman will appreciate. While trying to impress her he inadvertently turns her off. To various degrees, most men are simply clueless when it comes to understanding women.
- Extra Credit if you know where that is from.
Deleuze is always a good read :p
Body of Lies
Eclectic weirdo music; us creative singer types transcend picking on just one main stream loser band! HA
Although some good alternative rock gets me going.
OK here it is, sh*tor GET OFF THE POT. I dont like emailing back and forth for months to finally meet and find out we hate each other
Seriously why do we have to be "dating"? I propose this... why dont we just talk, hang out, do some fun activities and just have some fun together. Two people hanging out, having a good time interfacing. Why do we have to spin everything up to "ZOMG THE FIRST DATE!". Times have changed, so lets change with it, lets go have a beer, lets go thrift store shopping, lets do something that will allow us to convey our personality and see if we can enjoy each other