***I only date one person at a time, so if you manage to make plans with me it means I'm not seeing anyone else! If we do hook up and at any point you decide I'm not the one for you, that's ok! Just please let me know! Sure beats being kept hanging on waiting for someone who doesn't want to be with me. Thanks!***
I am a friendly, outgoing woman who loves to joke around and have fun. There's a song for everything and I find myself singing a lot... even though I probably sound like a dying walrus. I have been separated since May 2003 not here on a rebound lol! I have three awesome kids (14, 15 and 21). The oldest is moved out and the other two are becoming independent. I have much more freedom now! I am looking for a partner, with or without children, with a great sense of humor, for companionship and intimacy.I’m a bit shy at first, but with the right chemistry, I can warm up quickly!
I am self-sufficient and unmaterialistic and expect the same. I won't turn you down because you're filthy rich, but can be happy without a lot of money too. So I have a job, a home, a car, and do not wish to conceive any more children (though I would be happy to get to know yours and love them as my own). Which means I don't need a man in my life... I just want a man in my life :)
Very much attracted to black men... the darker the better... and firemen. But these are just my visual preferences and not required to win my heart. I'm not shallow. It's a connection between my soul and yours I'm seeking and not a trophy boyfriend.
While there has to be some sort of physical attraction, an attraction to personality -kindness, sincerity, intelligence, wit, and a positive attitude- far surpasses it.
I am looking for a life partner for me, not a parent for my children. However, they are part of the package, so you must be willing to accept them in your life, and willing to love them too :)
I am a great cook. I have 13 years of restaurant cooking experience, but more importantly, have been able to (most of the time) please my diners at home. Don't ask me to bake buns though, unless you're going to play hockey. :) LOL
I am bilingual -fluent in English and French.