RasJ79
Age: 34
Hang out
Berdusk: As lost as I get, I will find you.
About
Non-smoker with Big & Tall/BBW body type
City
Sprague river, Oregon
Details
35 year old Man, 5' 10" (178cm), Non-Religious
Ethnicity
Caucasian Virgo with Brown hair
Intent
Berdusk Wants to find someone to marry
Education
Some college
Personality
Comic Nerd
Profession
Direct Care


dating
August 2014






I am Seeking a Woman For Dating
Needs Test Not Completed Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Yes
Marital Status Divorced Do you do drugs? No
Pets Birds Eye Color Blue
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? No
Longest Relationship Over 3 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious



About Me
About Me (Nope. I have NO intentions of standing out here...):

35 - I'm afraid I'm beginning to smell of elderberries. Not so much, though; I must be fermenting, still.
Male - Sorry, ladies. I was diagnosed at birth.
Employed - I'd like to say gainfully, but I can never seem to have enough money.

Polite - I was once accused of being overly-polite, but that can't be true: I'm not British.

Honest - My word is my bond. Fixadent & forget it! (ha ha... no. Hey! Keep reading! No, no, no... It was a joke! Dammit, she's gone...)

Romantic - I've been known to melt a heart or two. :)

Christian - And NOT A Right-Wing FUNDIE! :)

A Li'l Chubbeh - Yep. If we're driving somewhere and blow out a tire, I've always got a spare! (-.O) Basically, yes - I'm fat, not obese, and have more of the "teddy bear" shaped body. I'm cuddly, dammit! (O.o)

Humorous - Well, okay. That's a lie (Or was being honest a lie? Maybe I'm lying about lying but I'm really honest, in which case, I wouldn't be being honest. Or maybe I'm being honest about lying, in which case I'm still being dishonest and lying, but just being honest about it. Are you as confused as I am?). I only PRETEND to be humorous. No genuine humor here. Uh uh.

I Got Game, Yo! - Hehe. I like to play RPGs (tabletop, not big into video games), Chess, Hike (if I've got good company), play online (cuz I'm a playa! ^_^), and try new things. I am also fond of movies and books, especially. :)

I Make Flowers - I know; hard to believe, right? Well, my nickname used to be Flower because of the 13 (more now) kinds of napkin flowers I make. No, my parents weren't hippies, I'm not gay, and I am not the skunk from Bambi. ^_^

Who I'm Looking For - She is:

Between the ages of 29-40
May or may not have children
Artsy (gotta have that creative spark! :)
Independent & Assertive (has pride in herself and stands for her beliefs)
Demure (While being respectful of those around her)
Ambitious (Not so much that her job is more important, but she knows what she wants)
Ravishing (You don't have to be a model to be beautiful. :)
AVAILABLE (Poly or Separated is NOT cool.)

I lost my ten year old daughter on (roughly) Thanksgiving of 2012. I've left my profile above largely intact to reflect who I (for the most part) am, though I'm a bit more quiet & somber than usual these days.

Though I am not there yet, I will be moving to Sprague River, OR. hopefully before the end of summer 2014 to begin setting up my homestead.

First Date
Basically anything where we can talk, laugh, and basically get to know one another sounds like a lot of fun. :)





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