Well, I can't tell you what I like because I won't really know until it's here, but I can tell you what I don't want. I don't want someone that is always having a pity party, I don't want someone that is negetive all the time, I don't want someone that is not happy with themselves, or that doesn't care about what they look like. I need self confidence in a mate, I need respect, and I need substance. I'm not necessarily looking for anything serious, but won't run from it if it happens either. I hope there is someone out there... I date occasionally, and I either date beautiful women that are vain, and have no substance, or intelligent women with no social skills... boy do I know how to pick them. So if you are a balance and you are interested in a guy that wants to make you smile, and always be happy in life....give me a try.