First meeting and first date are very different. First time we meet would be your stereotypical meet and greet for coffee, or drinks. Just to chat and see how things flow. First date depends on the girl and time of year. When the weather is warm, a drive up to Jones Beach. Throw down a sheet on the sand, and we eat whatever it is you asked me to make. Then mini golf, shuffle board, frisbee... Lots to do up there. During the colder months dinner and Dave & Busters, Strikes, or a pool hall is good. Its important to be doing something, not just talking. Its a date and you should have fun, not feel like your a job interview.