I'm 41 and in a committed open relationship. Just looking for someone to help me complete my puzzle. Have met quite a few interesting people so far but none of them really "fit" properly.
Just would like to find someone to be friends with and get together on occasion. Go out for the evening (dinner, drinks, bar/live band, etc....) and just feel comfortable around one another. I would like this to be an on going situation, In a sense we would be dating but without the possibility of it ever becoming a committed relationship. I am not looking for just a 1 night stand or just a purely sexual relationship. I would ultimately like to find someone I can have a good time with having fun and doing things together, as well as the other side of the relationship.
I consider myself to be a fairly funny guy. I'm no George Carlin or Rodney Dangerfield (my 2 fav comedians by the way. R.I.P. guys) but I can hold my own.
I enjoy reading and would love to meet someone who enjoys reading. We can share different books and Authors.
Music is a MAJOR factor in my life. I enjoy a variety of music in small doses. My main genres are rock/metal and some rap. I really don't like country in the slightest.
I find it funny that all the profiles I read say the person enjoys every type of music. If that were the case you would be a fan of such genres as POLKA, BLUEGRASS, CHAMBER MUSIC, OPERA, AMBIENT, WORLD. There are more genres then just pop, r-n-b, hip hop, rap, rock and country.
I'm a quiet guy, I prefer more intimate outings for a date, A quiet walk on the beach at night, sitting on a blanket in a park just talking. I really don't like going to clubs AT ALL. I will go to a local bar for a few drinks and to listen to a live band. Concerts are a great idea as well but I am yet to find somebody who shares the same musical interests as I do to go with me.
Outside of a month long visit to Canada over 20 yrs ago I have never really done much traveling. There are quite a few places I would love to go, Norway, Denmark, Germany, Japan, Ireland, Scotland, Australia, Sweden
I am attracted to curvy, thick, voluptuous women with piercings and tattoos. I also find women with confidence and glasses sexy as well.
I have 3 tattoos and 8 piercings and hope to add to my collection quite soon.
Ideally I would like to find a woman who is understanding of my situation and willing to accept it and take a chance on getting to know me.