Hi, Nigel here. If your reading my profile thoroughly then you may of noticed my profile headline. Well I've always been an advocate of Old School Values towards..........well everyone actually but essentially when it comes to Females. I believe that if you treat a Lady like a Lady then she'll treat you right in return. My ethos always has, always will be and will never be anything below being an Old School Gentleman towards a Lady. Offering to do thing's like Opening and Holding a door/car door open for someone and letting them go first, giving a Lady your coat when they are cold/wet and hold hands so that I'm nearest the road when walking down the street are a dying breed nowadays. You may see it from older people but very rarely in my age group. So if I can set an example to others then it just may come back although I'm not holding my breath on that!
The word Gentleman detail's my morals towards a Lady. They are: -
Gentle and Considerate towards her thought's and feeling's. If she asks you to keep them to yourself then do what she says!
Empathy and an open ear go a long way. Your meant to be her Soulmate. Make time for her when she's feeling low/had a setback.
Natural with who you are and what your about. Don't be something your not, be yourself! That's what she fell in Love with!
Time. Make time for her. Day's off together, Surprise at work? Sometimes a text or some flowers works when it's least expected :).
Look after her! Be there on bad and good days, 24/7, 365/6 days a year in any way possible. Make her feel Loved, Safe and Special!
Energise and Excite her, don't let things become Vanilla and Predictable.
Man up to your roles and responsibility's as a Partner/Parent!
Advice and Opinion (good and bad) allow her to know that you respond truthfully and not just say what she wants to hear everytime.
Never cheat or hurt her! Once your committed she's your Lady, your her Gentleman. Do what's right. She's a Lady, treat her like one!
Ask yourself. Did my last relationship have all of those? If even one of those letters is missing then he wasn't a Gentleman. You need someone that can give you all those letter's and more besides!
I believe that to be in Love with each other you need to have 100% Honesty, Loyalty, Trust and Respect or HeLTeR = Love as I call it for each other. Take away even just one of those it doesn't = Love anymore. So I'm looking for someone who I can build those things with. Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and give a man the chance to show you who he REALLY is. If you give me a chance and the feeling's mutual then I certainly won't disappoint you!
So, if I tickle your fancy and want to know more about a Chivalrous, Courteous, Honourable and Gallant northern Man (well, East Midlands originally) then message me! Don't be shy or wait for me! Like I say, if the feeling's mutual then if your holding my hand you certainly won't be disappointed! Thanks for reading! Xx.
As it would be a first date I’d want to do something that allows us both to relax and enjoy our time together, get to know each other and see if there's a spark there on both side's. I'm open to ideas though and am as happy taking the lead in suggesting something as going with something you'd like to. Or we can just meet up somewhere then just to go with the flow if you so wish :).
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Age between 20 and 26.
Live in United Kingdom
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