| About | Non-Smoker with Average body type | City | North York Ontario | |
| Details | 51 year old Man, 5' 11" (180 cm), Non-Religious | Ethnicity | European Pisces with Brown hair |
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| I am Seeking a | Woman | For | Long Term | |
| Needs Test | Not Completed | Chemistry | View his chemistry results | |
| Do you drink? | Socially | Do you want children? | Undecided/Open | |
| Marital Status | Single | Do you do drugs? | No | |
| Pets | No Pets | Eye Color | Brown | |
| Profession | PM / Sr. IT Business Analyst | Do you have children? | Yes | |
| Education | Bachelors degree | Do you have a car? | Yes |
Relationship
Intent trappedonbayst is actively seeking a relationship. |
Relationship History The longest relationship trappedonbayst has been in was over 10 years long. |
Interests
About Me
So, does this describe you? Unassuming, intelligent, genuine, a little off the wall, maybe even quirky? You seek the lighter side of life and humanity by poking a little fun at it while of course not being downright cruel. You have enough maturity and a sense of responsibility when needed and awareness of yourself and others?. If so, there may be some common ground to start a conversation, and by that, I don’t mean one of those frightfully boring interviews with dead air and ummms in between :) I make no demands in this profile of what you must be and what charactersitics you must have (other than a reasonable distance) - it'll be self evident by way of your profile, at least the ones that will capture my attention on all levels. When you walk into that crowded room, you will be the only one in it - that I guarantee you!
To start, please don't get all bent out of shape at a “Meet Me” notification. It's not a marriage proposal, it's not meeting without so much as a few traded heavy breathing phone chats and emails. It simply means, I think there's something there that warrants probing, and no, don’t get all excited at the prospect of a medical or alien kind either. It means I found your profile interesting, and yes, I did read it. We all know the drill here - women receive tons of emails, men have to do pretty much all the emailing and face the multitude of non responses causing us go to bed wondering about reconstructive surgery :) So take the notification as a simple hi, a smile across the room, a passing hello and if you think there’s a little spark there, toss a small acknowledgement (profile views don't count as you never know what they mean) back like a Favourites add or a simple Hi! and then I’ll take the time to write you an email to get the ball rolling.
So, with all that preamble aside sit back, grab a coffee, and think about devoting 4 minutes (that you’ll probably never get back) of your time, and please no hate emails that it’s too long because if you can’t muster 4 minutes, then I bet there’s little hope to anything meaningful down the line. :).
When I originally wrote this version I was watching Lost in Translation – which I thought was meaningful despite the majority consensus, but now, a re-write is in order and while I write, I’m thoroughly amusing myself with Dexter, can’t wait to see how he gets out of this jam next season, probably the last. I’m thinking though that I may be persistently masochistic, or just blindly stupid, but nothing is going to deter from this mission as I have faith and a ton of patience in the dating games people play here. But then again, It does kinda’ beat the clichéd gyrations of feeling up strange produce and looking like a buffoon trying to figure out if it’s ripe, hoping for once it’s not a little 5 foot granny that comes to my rescue.
I’ve been wondering whether to change gears on the profile but I think I’m finished wrestling with it as the bland and stock resume approach that everyone expects and then crucifies you for as being cliché to the point where if you read one more, you want to commit Hari Kari with a wooden spatula just doesn’t inspire. IMO, that kind of profile only works for symmetrically proportioned manikins worthy of the Red Carpet on Oscar night. So, the number two guys have to try a bit harder to give you some initial looks into our personality. At least this way, if you had reservations, they may just either turn them on or strengthen them. I'll just keep on plugging away with mini novels and happy to attract the quirky attractive ones with a boatload of issues who then end up ripping my heart and a few other choice organs out, tossing them to the hardwood and dancing the Flamenco all over them in 5 inch stilettos, just so I don’t quickly forget them. Gotta’ love ‘em. So, like I said, I’ll continue with this method as I have a few more organs to be shredded before I rip up my donor card. I’ve always thought, that no matter what relationship you invest in emotionally or otherwise, it is a venture well gained.
I’m also not going to make any claims of baggage free contents that I see on a daily basis here - why state it, or why say you're not looking for such? Unless you’re Mother Theresa, you, me and everyone else will have some in one form or degree – it’s all in how you yourself perceive it and whether it plays an active role in your day to day personality. If you haven’t had any baggage, you haven’t experienced life and hopefully learned from the experience. Dear old pops said "trust in humanity and you will eventually win". So, no back pats here, no paid off friends stating I'm better than whatever the choice du jour is. You're just going to have to judge for yourself - it's the way it works unfortunately and any self proclamations won’t make it so, or make you buy it. At this age, a lot of people say we’re set in our ways and cannot change – bollocks to that. Compromise to a healthy degree is good for your growth, rigidity just gets you closer to 6 feet under. We’re here to work with each other and make it fun in the process.
There’s a lot of great extreme sport profiles out there – commendable and envious. However my insurers told me to stop skiing unless I want my knees pointing in some bizarre reverse angle like an ostrich (think about that one for a moment) and my premiums to rise - plus, I do want to walk my daughter down the aisle :) So, I won’t waste your time in contacting you if you ski, scuba or jump out of a perfectly good plane as I don’t want to feel guilty for reducing your pleasures. However, if it doesn’t matter to you, I can still amuse myself in other ways while I wait back on shore or at the lodge for you – hopefully you’ll come back in one piece!
Maybe a few musings and thoughts of my own ....
• I could promise you the world, to hold you and to cherish you. I could promise to be there in sickness and in health. I could say "till death do us part". But I won't. Those are the contrived words of optimistic couples who feel they must say them, the ones full of hope. I don't sit here full of hope. I am not optimistic. I am sure. I am steady. I promise you me.
• If you think seeing the glass being half empty is a bad trait, consider that I'm waiting to fill it back up! That's the true sign of an optimist!
• I found this somewhat amusing when people wish you to live to a 101? – Think about it, at 101, you’re more than likely going to be stumbling through some hospital with your backside hanging out of some baby blue gown designed by a 98 year old Floridian, taking your IV pole for a walk and looking for the next high stakes bingo game.
To start, please don't get all bent out of shape at a “Meet Me” notification. It's not a marriage proposal, it's not meeting without so much as a few traded heavy breathing phone chats and emails. It simply means, I think there's something there that warrants probing, and no, don’t get all excited at the prospect of a medical or alien kind either. It means I found your profile interesting, and yes, I did read it. We all know the drill here - women receive tons of emails, men have to do pretty much all the emailing and face the multitude of non responses causing us go to bed wondering about reconstructive surgery :) So take the notification as a simple hi, a smile across the room, a passing hello and if you think there’s a little spark there, toss a small acknowledgement (profile views don't count as you never know what they mean) back like a Favourites add or a simple Hi! and then I’ll take the time to write you an email to get the ball rolling.
So, with all that preamble aside sit back, grab a coffee, and think about devoting 4 minutes (that you’ll probably never get back) of your time, and please no hate emails that it’s too long because if you can’t muster 4 minutes, then I bet there’s little hope to anything meaningful down the line. :).
When I originally wrote this version I was watching Lost in Translation – which I thought was meaningful despite the majority consensus, but now, a re-write is in order and while I write, I’m thoroughly amusing myself with Dexter, can’t wait to see how he gets out of this jam next season, probably the last. I’m thinking though that I may be persistently masochistic, or just blindly stupid, but nothing is going to deter from this mission as I have faith and a ton of patience in the dating games people play here. But then again, It does kinda’ beat the clichéd gyrations of feeling up strange produce and looking like a buffoon trying to figure out if it’s ripe, hoping for once it’s not a little 5 foot granny that comes to my rescue.
I’ve been wondering whether to change gears on the profile but I think I’m finished wrestling with it as the bland and stock resume approach that everyone expects and then crucifies you for as being cliché to the point where if you read one more, you want to commit Hari Kari with a wooden spatula just doesn’t inspire. IMO, that kind of profile only works for symmetrically proportioned manikins worthy of the Red Carpet on Oscar night. So, the number two guys have to try a bit harder to give you some initial looks into our personality. At least this way, if you had reservations, they may just either turn them on or strengthen them. I'll just keep on plugging away with mini novels and happy to attract the quirky attractive ones with a boatload of issues who then end up ripping my heart and a few other choice organs out, tossing them to the hardwood and dancing the Flamenco all over them in 5 inch stilettos, just so I don’t quickly forget them. Gotta’ love ‘em. So, like I said, I’ll continue with this method as I have a few more organs to be shredded before I rip up my donor card. I’ve always thought, that no matter what relationship you invest in emotionally or otherwise, it is a venture well gained.
I’m also not going to make any claims of baggage free contents that I see on a daily basis here - why state it, or why say you're not looking for such? Unless you’re Mother Theresa, you, me and everyone else will have some in one form or degree – it’s all in how you yourself perceive it and whether it plays an active role in your day to day personality. If you haven’t had any baggage, you haven’t experienced life and hopefully learned from the experience. Dear old pops said "trust in humanity and you will eventually win". So, no back pats here, no paid off friends stating I'm better than whatever the choice du jour is. You're just going to have to judge for yourself - it's the way it works unfortunately and any self proclamations won’t make it so, or make you buy it. At this age, a lot of people say we’re set in our ways and cannot change – bollocks to that. Compromise to a healthy degree is good for your growth, rigidity just gets you closer to 6 feet under. We’re here to work with each other and make it fun in the process.
There’s a lot of great extreme sport profiles out there – commendable and envious. However my insurers told me to stop skiing unless I want my knees pointing in some bizarre reverse angle like an ostrich (think about that one for a moment) and my premiums to rise - plus, I do want to walk my daughter down the aisle :) So, I won’t waste your time in contacting you if you ski, scuba or jump out of a perfectly good plane as I don’t want to feel guilty for reducing your pleasures. However, if it doesn’t matter to you, I can still amuse myself in other ways while I wait back on shore or at the lodge for you – hopefully you’ll come back in one piece!
Maybe a few musings and thoughts of my own ....
• I could promise you the world, to hold you and to cherish you. I could promise to be there in sickness and in health. I could say "till death do us part". But I won't. Those are the contrived words of optimistic couples who feel they must say them, the ones full of hope. I don't sit here full of hope. I am not optimistic. I am sure. I am steady. I promise you me.
• If you think seeing the glass being half empty is a bad trait, consider that I'm waiting to fill it back up! That's the true sign of an optimist!
• I found this somewhat amusing when people wish you to live to a 101? – Think about it, at 101, you’re more than likely going to be stumbling through some hospital with your backside hanging out of some baby blue gown designed by a 98 year old Floridian, taking your IV pole for a walk and looking for the next high stakes bingo game.
First Date
a few more ....
• It almost seems as if the entire population on this site is afflicted with the following conditions? Down-to-Earth , easy going, from jeans to black dress in 5 minutes, walks on beaches, thoughtful, caring, compassionate, (while you unread/delete emails), drama free, no baggage with just a carry on, looking for a good hearted man?. Not that there's anything wrong with those passages - but I'd love to see something a bit more original that makes you stand above the crowd - please? :)
• Class is bestowed upon you by others, it's not a self anointed description - I make no apologies for this opinion.
In all honesty and seriousness – who I seek is probably no different than you, unless you’re after the Old Spice dude, you know – look here, now there, look here blah blah. I have a wide variety of passing interests and that’s probably where you can glean more of who I am rather than all the above drivel. I don’t have a recipe for who you are, who you resemble, what you are, what you do, what you’ve done – all that matters is you’re going to make my socks unravel and that we end up sharing the rest of time making each other smile, and happy to come home to one another.
Yeah, I guess I wrote a lot and probably told you little, right? But, the best way to learn is through conversation and how it unfolds. Not to be cynical but everyone can write what you’d like to portray yourself as – it’s in every second profile and reads the same. You could certainly be as you write, but the truth comes out of your mouth and in your actions, no matter how you slice it – let me make those observations. Most of us get it, not everyone can be your WOW factor, but if you toss caring, compassionate, easy going, down to earth, full of laughter in your profile, they all tend to go down the toilet when one can’t return a common courtesy :) blunt, huh ...
Anyway, thanks for stopping by, have a great day and hope you catch that prize that makes you say adios to this place! – Cheers.
First Date
I don't think it matters what we do , it's more in just sharing an interactive experience rather than an interview. Taking a walk downtown and check out the people "show", or hike through Edwards Gardens or High Park for wildlife photo ops, a Gallery would be cool, even a nice dinner and drinks out on the town - The Pravda Vodka Bar is also a good start :) Bonus points if you like to shoot a game of pool, or you don't want us to jump out of any planes with the phrase "you go first!" :)
• It almost seems as if the entire population on this site is afflicted with the following conditions? Down-to-Earth , easy going, from jeans to black dress in 5 minutes, walks on beaches, thoughtful, caring, compassionate, (while you unread/delete emails), drama free, no baggage with just a carry on, looking for a good hearted man?. Not that there's anything wrong with those passages - but I'd love to see something a bit more original that makes you stand above the crowd - please? :)
• Class is bestowed upon you by others, it's not a self anointed description - I make no apologies for this opinion.
In all honesty and seriousness – who I seek is probably no different than you, unless you’re after the Old Spice dude, you know – look here, now there, look here blah blah. I have a wide variety of passing interests and that’s probably where you can glean more of who I am rather than all the above drivel. I don’t have a recipe for who you are, who you resemble, what you are, what you do, what you’ve done – all that matters is you’re going to make my socks unravel and that we end up sharing the rest of time making each other smile, and happy to come home to one another.
Yeah, I guess I wrote a lot and probably told you little, right? But, the best way to learn is through conversation and how it unfolds. Not to be cynical but everyone can write what you’d like to portray yourself as – it’s in every second profile and reads the same. You could certainly be as you write, but the truth comes out of your mouth and in your actions, no matter how you slice it – let me make those observations. Most of us get it, not everyone can be your WOW factor, but if you toss caring, compassionate, easy going, down to earth, full of laughter in your profile, they all tend to go down the toilet when one can’t return a common courtesy :) blunt, huh ...
Anyway, thanks for stopping by, have a great day and hope you catch that prize that makes you say adios to this place! – Cheers.
First Date
I don't think it matters what we do , it's more in just sharing an interactive experience rather than an interview. Taking a walk downtown and check out the people "show", or hike through Edwards Gardens or High Park for wildlife photo ops, a Gallery would be cool, even a nice dinner and drinks out on the town - The Pravda Vodka Bar is also a good start :) Bonus points if you like to shoot a game of pool, or you don't want us to jump out of any planes with the phrase "you go first!" :)
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