About John
... I'm still optimistic and extremely positive even though this venue continues to baffle me! but none the less, let's keep at it! and if you want to know about the magician thing - ask away :)
Firstly - I’m a father to one superstar on her way to university this fall with dreams of Med school and bankrupting me in the process and I support her wholeheartedly! Since she lives in another city it affords me plenty of time for you, so no worries about my availability. Even with the distance, we keep in constant contact on a daily basis through texts, phone calls and emails so we’re still a big part of each other’s lives.
About me - I have a few passionate interests (photography and my car club) that keeps me occupied, but will always be open to new interests you might have, as sharing each other’s passions is what makes life that much more rewarding. I’ve strived for simplicity in my life and achieved it but I’m always ready to add a few welcome complications – life can get a bit too quiet at times and I think it’s taken its course. So again, don’t feel like you’re going to be inundated with a series of someone else’s’ issues because you’re not. You can though, certainly look to me for support in any part of your life, not how to live it, but to listen and support you– it’s been a traditional role for me.
On a more tangible level, I’m just you’re ordinary hard working downtown professional by day but who has a great love for all that the city offers - the diversity, events of any type, the food, the people and most important that certain "vibe". I like simplicity but do understand and appreciate the finer things in life; on the other hand I also understand when Becel goes on sale at Wally World. I get impulse buying, but not without consideration. I understand taking off anywhere the road or skies take me, but also enjoy a perfect evening in, and cooking for someone else, in case you’re the type that burns water, but you pick the movie as I like anything – my daughter taught me tolerance of “girly” movies to the point that if they’re entertaining that’s cool with me. I get the the biggest thrill out of taking excessive time in Christmas shopping for my partner, something which I greatly look forward to again as much a great night out with you – really not too much different than what most like, but very different in what you'll get character and relationship wise!
Character wise, I’m always looking to the lighter side of life and who likes to poke a little fun at it. A lot of people say I’m a fungi, and I think scratching my head “why mushroom?” You might not get this, but I ended up in a dark cave for days looking for the meaning of this – I still haven’t found it. Maybe you can help me sort this out?
Everyone asks “what are you looking for?” like they’re expecting me to hand over a laundry list. It’s fairly basic, attraction, which might not be there immediately but will grow with exposure; someone with awareness of themselves and eventually their partner; someone not caught so caught up in so many interests that has little time for an actual relationship and what it takes to make it thrive; someone with a great urban sense, and who also appreciates the lighter side of life; a bit quirky is always fun; someone who can walk into a crowded room, and to me, will be the only one in that room. Someone serious and with integrity in how this process works; someone unassuming by nature, not someone caught in the dating headlights with 3 hands in the candy bowl blowing smoke up everyone’s pants. I guess that was a laundry list, but that’s what you get in me, not to mention, sure, steady and committed. And as grand as the thought is, someone to travel with to interesting places, not just Cleveland – “it don’t rock” [sic]
An aspiration - I've always pondered retiring to some quaint town in Europe where one is engulfed by the simple life, surrounded by history and of course you! but that's just a thought - one never knows!
Cheers for now ... Toronto or 30 minutes through traffic in any direction give or take, other than into the lake!
Oh and PS, if you want to get my attention, NO MEET ME's please, people send them and then you email, no one replies - I don't get it! Send a "Hi" instead, or add me to your favourites - I'll reply if I read something decent that isn't on every 2nd profile and I feel there's some initial attraction. If I don't, it's really nothing personal, it's just a matter of personal preference. Pictures would be appreciated if you are actually in them, not just ones of your dog, cat, weasels, ferrets, your bunions, your prize winning turnips, your rear end or some trashy lingerie picture of you spread eagled on your bed where you're spilling out more than the Exon Valdez.
First Date
I don't think it matters what we do, it's more in just sharing an interactive experience rather than an interview where we play ping pong with question after question until we sit there and stare up to the left somewhat uncomfortably trying not to look at our watch and then uttering that amusing and eloquent “ … hum how about that weather eh” blah!!
So perhaps, weather permitting instead, we could take a walk along one of the shopping districts (not that mystical beach that everyone prattles on about unless it's actually summer), the harbour, or wherever to check out the sites, window shop, take in a cafe for a quick break, people watching along Queen West is always fun. Maybe walk through Edwards Gardens or High Park and bring your dog if you have one, and bonus points if you like photography.
Or if you're not into that, how about shoot a game of pool, catch a sporting event, live music or a round of laughs at a comedy club?. Wanna' dance up a storm - sure bring it on, but wear your boots. Game of darts at the local pub and see who can nail the other in the forehead with a dart first? Taking in a new restaurant is equally fun to see if the green pass is really a pass after waiting 12 hours.
Bonus points deducted If you want us to jump out of a plane while uttering the phrase "you go first!"
If you’re just up for a coffee or casual drink first, well I can do that too, just leave the cell phone in the car please. Nothing says disinterest more than checking for your emergency "I have to leave" text!
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