first dates..... Talking is a must, laughing helpful , attraction needed , and fun well its hard to have fun on a first date but if it happens you probably have had some practice. I love going to movies but you can't really get to know someone in a movie theatre. I like to go camping and hiking but who wants to go far from civalazation with someone you don't know. I love to eat and I mean love it so a good first date for me is dinner, maybe some drinks, good conversation, then a movie, and hopefuly a connection between two people. Kissing on first dates, its all about the moment, if you are attracted to each other go for it but don't just go for it, ask if its the right time and if so....sweet!