I am very attracted to and intrigued by are women with intelligence and confidence. To me, there is nothing more attractive than a woman that has to explain something to me more than once because I didn't understand the first time. And I don't mean pointing out something that she thinks I am doing wrong. I have a fair amount of intellect. And even though I get asked a lot, hey, i'm no rocket scientist but i'm no dummy either. I can hold a conversation. I have a quick wit, sarcastic sense of humor but not in a mean spirited way. And OH GOD! PLEASE, don't be overly sensitive. See, what I mean by sarcastic, that was quite funny and not mean at all.
Somone who knows who she is and can share her thoughts. Just because someone tells me about their good qualities it doesn't mean that I don't want to know about other qualities, good or bad. If something makes you mad and you feel like being mad then I say be mad. If you feel like you want to slam the door, then slam it. Just please, don't throw dishes. But I just want to find someone that wants me to be around her and she wants to be around me. What else I can I ask for.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Going to a museum, the beach, walk in a park or a nice quite intimate meal. Where we can talk. But if there is something you have been wanting to try, I would be willing to try it too.