What I'm looking for:
I prefer to be hated for telling the truth than loved for telling a lie.
I don't care to attract anyone over who isn't right for me. So I'm going to be precise as possible. I'd like to meet a girl in or near Tulsa/Owasso. Age about 20-34. Slim , athletic or average. I prefer being around people that don't smoke or drink a lot. Doesn't have kids. Likes to expand her mind. I'd like a girl who is caring, committed and honest.. Shy is okay.. Outgoing or not outgoing doesn't matter that much; though I would prefer someone who is open to reading, relaxing and watching movies or games.. I like to do my own thing most of the time but a girl who is willing to push me out of my comfort zone (if driven by positivity) I recognize can be good. For the most part I desire someone willing to meet me half way.
What I'm about:
I like art and creativity. I love cats. I'm not a sports person but I'm open to exercise, travel and nature activities. My favorite band is Tool and will probably always be my favorite. Otherwise I like a fairly broad range of music (except most country). I play a lot video games but I would not let them take away from a relationship. I'm politically minded.. not the average range of politics, more of an anti-politics. I believe in the power of reason, evidence and a universal application of non-aggression. As for love, I believe love can exist between any two people its a matter of will, belief, perception and desire. A lot of attraction is blind and foolish, but in the long run its up to you to make a conscious decision who to love desire and be there for.
Please note : I am turned off by slutty girls. It's not really the idea that they have been with a lot of guys that bothers me - its knowing that person's perception of sexuality as disjointed from love and intimacy that bugs me. I can understand people who can separate sex and love; but why make it some kind of goal.. I'd rather not connect physically unless there is long-term potential and a genuine connection.
Contact me through POF and I'll get back with you.
Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Depends on the girl and her/my mood.