So, you want to know about the lass in the photo above, huh?
Well, I'm the bold, opinionated, outgoing woman who refuses to lurk in dark corners. Otherwise known as that loud-mouthed b*tch who's hogging your share of the limelight.
I'm the naughty secret that you've been keeping; that repressed inner passion you didn't know you had inside you, just waiting to escape.
I am the bad girl your mother warned you would get you into trouble and make you want a new tattoo; yet alternately the quiet, bookish and sweet girl who thinks you need to read more and drink less on the weekends.
I'm slightly psychotic, but reasonably safe.
I am effervescent and vibrant. I can be moody and changeable; I am silly, and I am indescribably peculiar. I love snakes and spiders, but will grow noticeably pale over going down a set of wicked steep stairs.
I promise that I've had all my shots, and if you'd like, I'll even wear my tags on the first date, although they really don't match any of my other jewelery...
I am poly, and have a delightful primary partner whom I absolutely and unequivocally adore and would not trade; not even for all the whiskey in Ireland! However, that said, I enjoy new relationships. I love the beauty and chaos that adding to my life inevitably creates.
I'm what you might call hetero-flexible: open to creating friendships and relationships with both sexes. I find that it is the person I love, not the packaging. Although I have a strong love of all things deliciously virile and male, there is something undeniably luscious about the softness of another woman's lips when you kiss her, or the way that she squeaks when you find that sensitive hidden spot.
I am looking for an equal, someone who can keep up with me, challenge and laugh with me. Someone smart and fun, silly at times and serious at others. Comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt getting dirty under the hood of a car or frolicking in the woods, but cleans up worth a damn on a dime and enjoys going out for something more formal from time to time. I know that I ask for a lot in a love, but I have a lot to offer in return.
As for dating, I don't want to be your "better half". I'm not a half, I'm a whole, and in theory, so are you. I have a life, and for the most part, it works for me. I'd like to add to it, but I have no desire to be dependent on someone else. I expect you to come with a life and friends too, and to want nights out, etc. This should be a merger, not a hostile take-over. Honey, if I'm the centre of your universe, you need to go exploring for a while before you call me again - don't forget your towel!
If you are not a complete person, and think I am going to "fix" you or "complete" you - quit reading right now and go find another person to communicate with. I don't have time to fix you, nor the inclination to do so.
I'm going through some changes these days in terms of what I want to do and where I think I should go. The only thing I know for sure is that I am staying in Denver, and I plan to continue seeing the people who make me smile.
As for the rest of it... it's open for debate and consideration. I just knew I should have made that left turn at Albuquerque, but since I didn't, it's time to figure out where Plan B has led me. This is not a bad place to be in life, and I am not unhappy with where I am... it is just different than I suppose I thought it would be when I was younger. Then again... aren't we all discovering that the dreams of the 13 year-old you were WAY off?? Oh well... at least I'm having fun!
I try to keep an open mind to everything; there are so many interesting things that just don't fit inside the "box" and I love what I call "Mind Candy" - you know - the things that make you stop and think. I may not always agree with your point of view, but I really do want to hear it.