Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
Ideal: Fly to Hawaii, reserve a table at the Top of Waikiki, enjoy a wonderful meal and spend lots of time talking. Afterwards, we could go down and walk on the beach and watch the sun come up.
Realistic: Go to Yosemite, rent a set of horses. Ride to the top of the Mist trail where we could see the entire park, and have a pic-nic. When it starts getting dark, ride back down and drive to the center of Yosemite valley and star-gaze.