I don't know why pof suddenly appeared in my inbox after a 4 year hiatus, and after trying several attempts to delete the profile, pof has proven to be more stubborn than l. So for now I will allow pof's unexplainable attraction to my email account. I believe everything happens for a reason maybe there's a reason for this!
I'm currently in a relationship and will not comment on it. However if you would like a female perspective on dating or even what being a woman is like, ask. I may as well try to help someone else while being stuck in p o f purgatory!
Take care everyone. I wish you luck in finding what you're looking for!