Hmmmm let's see. Ok first off let's get the buzz words out of the way... funny, smart, hardworking, and caring. If everyone in the world actually lived up to their online dating profile, I think we could kiss war and strife in the world good bye.
I believe the buzz words above describe me pretty well, but hey doesn't everyone? If you can't tell by now I am a bit of a cynic, but I am still a fun loving individual at heart. I would much rather have a good time instead of taking life too seriously but don't misread that, I am nobody's fool ( I just like to act the part every once in awhile).
Outgoing in public situations, can mesh well with any group but tend to get tongue tied around women.
I'm not into lying or playing games so let's get this out of the way now, I'm not in this just for sex, but if I remember it correctly it's fun and I think I was ok at it( again doesn't everyone say that?), would like to do it again sometime but let's get to know each other first.
First dates are for getting to know people, so following this train of thought let's eliminate a few things right off the bat. No clubs, too loud can't hold a conversation and even though i like to dance i've been told i'm really not as good at it as i think i am. We can also rule out movies since if you do try to hold a conversation you'll upset everyone that overpaid for a ticket...they don't like that. Hmmmm what's left? Coffee hey you get something to drink and can hold a conversation, sounds good to me. Mini Golf and or pool while i don't claim to be the most best in either it's fun let's you interact. Quiet bars, walks, dinner tried and true can't go wrong with them.
A first date, sometimes need to be person specific trip to the aquarium for example might go over well with some and flop with others, I'm pretty flexible let's talk we'll take it from there.