When people say that men will treat you only how you allow them. It doesn't mean that every man you meet will treat you great, simply because you ask/ or want him too... It means once they see you won't accept their unacceptable behavior, they will either do better or move on.
UPDATE: Seeking laid-back, humorous,( seriously funny ) grounded, willing to spoil me once in awhile kind of guy. Computer geeks, fishermen, chefs & gym enthusiasts are individuals that peak my interests. #JustBeingHonest.