... and who wants to be a nobody?
Hi and thanks for stopping by. A little about me, if you want more you will just have to write and ask. I like to go to the movies or just stay home with a DVD and a chilled bottle of white. Like to be outside, hikes, walks, or anything to do with water, and I love to ski. I am 5'11" in socks, and would like to meet a man at least as tall, if I got to wear something other than flats, it would be a bonus! Call me vain, but there it is.
I am looking for a regular guy with priorities in the right place. Education and professional success (however it is measured) have always appealed to me. I am financially independent, not looking for anybody to pay off my debt, fix my house or beat up my ex (ok, that one might be amusing!), nor do I want to take care of anybody. I would like to share my life and experiences (great, good and not so good) with a partner. I believe that if anything is worth doing, both sides need to give it 100% commitment and trust, which is scary as hell, and not run at the first sign of waves. If you are reading this and thinking the same, please write. If you want to just pass the time, please do not.
I Am A Pine Tree - this about says it all
I love agreeable company, peace, and harmony.
I am compassionate and friendly, I love to help others.
I am natural poet, I have a very active imagination.
I am very soft on the inside - needing affection and reassurance.
I fall in love deeply, but will leave if I feel betrayed.
25 Ways to Make a Girl Smile - if you follow these, you will not go wrong
1st. Tell her she is beautiful.
2nd. Hold her hand
3rd. Kiss her on the forehead
4th. Leave her voice messages to wake up to (really like this one!)
5th. Always tell her U love her at any and all times
6th. When she is upset U hold her tight
7th. Tell her how much she means to U
8th. Recognize the small things... they usually mean the most
9th. Pick her over all the other girls U hang out with
10th. Write her notes, even if it is just about how your day went
11th. Introduce her to family and friends as your girlfriend
12th. Play with her hair
13th. Sit in the park and just talk to her
14th. Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, just tell her jokes
15th. Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night just because U missed her
16th. Let her fall asleep in your arms
17th. If she's mad at U, kiss her
18th. Bring her flowers just because
19th. Treat her the same around your friends as U do when your alone
20th. Lock eyes with her and smile
21st. Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants
22nd. Slow dance with her
23rd. Kiss her in the rain
24th. Just hold her
25th. And when U fall in love with her . . . Tell her (but if you do not, tell her asap, and do not lie about it!!!)
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option. I have done this more times than I wish to admit, but I am learning.
one of my fav all time fav songs
and a new found on the way to being a fav
Something informal is good for a start,coffee or ice-cream or lunch maybe? If things go well, we can make plans for next time.