| About | Non-Smoker with Athletic body type | City | Enola Pennsylvania | |
| Details | 41 year old Man, 6' 2" (188 cm), Christian - other | Ethnicity | Caucasian Taurus with Blond hair | |
| Intent | jbenn429 is looking for a relationship. | Education | Bachelors degree |
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| I am Seeking a | Woman | For | Dating | |
| Needs Test | Not Completed | Chemistry | View his chemistry results | |
| Do you drink? | Socially | Do you want children? | Undecided/Open | |
| Marital Status | Divorced | Do you do drugs? | No | |
| Pets | No Pets | Eye Color | Blue | |
| Profession | Banking | Do you have children? | Yes | |
| Do you have a car? | Yes |
Relationship
Relationship History Over 10 years |
Interests
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About Me
I AM FUN and very fun to be around, friendly, compassionate, intelligent, sensitive, attentive, affectionate, confident, honest, loyal, caring, physically fit/athletic, happy person. URGENT READ ON:
Some favorite activities: caring for my kids, music(any)/concerts(jimmy buffett,O.A.R.,DMB,U2,Pearl Jam,etc.), anything outdoors-fish, camp, smores, amusement parks, travel, movie(all genre's)nights, canoe/kayak, hiking, biking, beach/water activities, golf, tennis,skiing, shopping, bowling, jetski, dancing, football/baseball/hockey/basketball,etc.--not a crazed fan, but like going to an occasional game(prefer playing any sport, not watching), great food, quoits?, tailgating expertise, love to read and improve my learning in life. I definitely act and feel like a 30yr old in most ways, but my 40yr old mind is much better in terms of being that romantic man a woman wants. Domesticated male: cleaning home, cooking healthy foods together,foot/back massages, seat down!, kid fun,etc. Family and friends are what counts, spending quality time together is most important to me. Cuddling and hugs are my specialty, holding hands, walks in the park or on the beach, doing the little things that make you want me more each day!!! love animals! I may look like an ex-Linebacker(6'2" 220lb chiseled rock frame) for Penn State, but have the heart of a teddy bear and mind of a rocket scientist(just kidding, but I am intelligent)!! Life is a long joyful journey, would be nice to have a fun companion for the adventure! If you are searching for a unique man who you can have fun with on a daily basis, who works hard in the fine art of making you happy..Keep reading!
WHAT SEPARATES ME FROM THE "Wolf Pack": Past experiences and readings on the subject of love/relationships have given me unique insight on what it takes to make a woman truly happy. Affection and attention(social interaction) with a need to feel secure, as well as having fun with each other(wanting to be happy) are a big part of this. In terms of "finding a soul mate" or "getting lucky" in love..I don't believe in that theory for the most part, it is more about how you love the person you found(chemistry/attraction are a big part of course, and finding a great match intially is hard as well) and little to do with getting lucky. What you do every day with the person you found will turn that person into your soul mate. The romance, the thoughtful ideas and "actions" that take place in the relationship will bear the fruit of deep love over time, give and take from both partners--the most satisfaction usually comes from giving rather then receiving. Similar interests help a relationship, but don't guarantee success, being able to communicate properly(just knowing that men and women communicate in different ways helps) and have fun together are more important. I am not saying I am an expert on women, just that I have a better understanding of how to make you happy then 98% of the men you will meet. A statement of confidence, not arrogance.
"Butterflies" people often associate new love with wanting to feel butterflies in their belly, a sense of joy when with their new lover. Obviously, we all want to have this feeling. The interesting fact about this feeling, (it is a biological feeling) it only last no longer then 2 yrs into a relationship, then it fades away forever with that person. Then what happens? hmm.
Seeking, but not limited to: Intelligent, attractive(men are visually motivated), loves kids/animals, independent, fit/healthy/cares about her body, family values, fun to be with/happy, compassionate, caring, open minded woman, self confident, non-smoker. Ages preferred(30-39yr old).
I am a realist in knowing that some woman out there may be a great fit for me that does not meet some or all of this criteria. I am open to meeting all types of women and see what happens. Meeting new people and being surprised by what you learn is what is great about living in this world.
Any type of relationship is ok with me (long term preferred), I am friendly and willing to talk to anyone, anytime. If you would like to be friends first that would be fine with me, because I know how important emotional intimacy is to a woman. And when in love with someone, you do want to know the person you are with is your best friend. That being said, I am selective in who I contact, I am not one of those "numbers" type guys who go out and contact as many women as possible. I am not a game player, I will be honest and up front with you all the time...Loyalty, I am probably viewed by friends and family as the most loyal person you will ever know. Trust is big, in my mind..as I am sure in yours. If you seek a "real man", you found him. A man who is not afraid of commitment, but is also not in a rush to find it. I am not needy in any way, but very affectionate and attentive. I will end this by saying.. I am a very driven individual, in life and in love, having fun along the way is always a part of that...
**After reviewing profiles of women on this site, I will counter the sex issue most women bring to the forefront on their ads. Sex is the "act" created through thoughtful actions and feelings that will make you want to reciprocate the act of sex(hormones play a part too, lol). Also any woman needs to recognize that sex is any mans most important need and most men don't know how to express that need(yes, ladies more important then food and sleep, which of course fall in at the two and three spots,lol). Sex is the cement of the relationship, it helps maintain intimate feelings for both partners!! If there is no daily intimate actions from both partners(I don't mean sex alone), love fades away over time.
O.K. if you read this far, now is the time to act, lets go have some fun!! This is just a glimpse of the unique man I am and what I can offer you, contacting me is the only way to know if we have the potential to make a great pair or just be great friends!!
Great book for any person to read, man or woman: "His needs, Her needs"
"the most important need we all have, is the need to be loved".
"be the change you want to see in the world"
Some favorite activities: caring for my kids, music(any)/concerts(jimmy buffett,O.A.R.,DMB,U2,Pearl Jam,etc.), anything outdoors-fish, camp, smores, amusement parks, travel, movie(all genre's)nights, canoe/kayak, hiking, biking, beach/water activities, golf, tennis,skiing, shopping, bowling, jetski, dancing, football/baseball/hockey/basketball,etc.--not a crazed fan, but like going to an occasional game(prefer playing any sport, not watching), great food, quoits?, tailgating expertise, love to read and improve my learning in life. I definitely act and feel like a 30yr old in most ways, but my 40yr old mind is much better in terms of being that romantic man a woman wants. Domesticated male: cleaning home, cooking healthy foods together,foot/back massages, seat down!, kid fun,etc. Family and friends are what counts, spending quality time together is most important to me. Cuddling and hugs are my specialty, holding hands, walks in the park or on the beach, doing the little things that make you want me more each day!!! love animals! I may look like an ex-Linebacker(6'2" 220lb chiseled rock frame) for Penn State, but have the heart of a teddy bear and mind of a rocket scientist(just kidding, but I am intelligent)!! Life is a long joyful journey, would be nice to have a fun companion for the adventure! If you are searching for a unique man who you can have fun with on a daily basis, who works hard in the fine art of making you happy..Keep reading!
WHAT SEPARATES ME FROM THE "Wolf Pack": Past experiences and readings on the subject of love/relationships have given me unique insight on what it takes to make a woman truly happy. Affection and attention(social interaction) with a need to feel secure, as well as having fun with each other(wanting to be happy) are a big part of this. In terms of "finding a soul mate" or "getting lucky" in love..I don't believe in that theory for the most part, it is more about how you love the person you found(chemistry/attraction are a big part of course, and finding a great match intially is hard as well) and little to do with getting lucky. What you do every day with the person you found will turn that person into your soul mate. The romance, the thoughtful ideas and "actions" that take place in the relationship will bear the fruit of deep love over time, give and take from both partners--the most satisfaction usually comes from giving rather then receiving. Similar interests help a relationship, but don't guarantee success, being able to communicate properly(just knowing that men and women communicate in different ways helps) and have fun together are more important. I am not saying I am an expert on women, just that I have a better understanding of how to make you happy then 98% of the men you will meet. A statement of confidence, not arrogance.
"Butterflies" people often associate new love with wanting to feel butterflies in their belly, a sense of joy when with their new lover. Obviously, we all want to have this feeling. The interesting fact about this feeling, (it is a biological feeling) it only last no longer then 2 yrs into a relationship, then it fades away forever with that person. Then what happens? hmm.
Seeking, but not limited to: Intelligent, attractive(men are visually motivated), loves kids/animals, independent, fit/healthy/cares about her body, family values, fun to be with/happy, compassionate, caring, open minded woman, self confident, non-smoker. Ages preferred(30-39yr old).
I am a realist in knowing that some woman out there may be a great fit for me that does not meet some or all of this criteria. I am open to meeting all types of women and see what happens. Meeting new people and being surprised by what you learn is what is great about living in this world.
Any type of relationship is ok with me (long term preferred), I am friendly and willing to talk to anyone, anytime. If you would like to be friends first that would be fine with me, because I know how important emotional intimacy is to a woman. And when in love with someone, you do want to know the person you are with is your best friend. That being said, I am selective in who I contact, I am not one of those "numbers" type guys who go out and contact as many women as possible. I am not a game player, I will be honest and up front with you all the time...Loyalty, I am probably viewed by friends and family as the most loyal person you will ever know. Trust is big, in my mind..as I am sure in yours. If you seek a "real man", you found him. A man who is not afraid of commitment, but is also not in a rush to find it. I am not needy in any way, but very affectionate and attentive. I will end this by saying.. I am a very driven individual, in life and in love, having fun along the way is always a part of that...
**After reviewing profiles of women on this site, I will counter the sex issue most women bring to the forefront on their ads. Sex is the "act" created through thoughtful actions and feelings that will make you want to reciprocate the act of sex(hormones play a part too, lol). Also any woman needs to recognize that sex is any mans most important need and most men don't know how to express that need(yes, ladies more important then food and sleep, which of course fall in at the two and three spots,lol). Sex is the cement of the relationship, it helps maintain intimate feelings for both partners!! If there is no daily intimate actions from both partners(I don't mean sex alone), love fades away over time.
O.K. if you read this far, now is the time to act, lets go have some fun!! This is just a glimpse of the unique man I am and what I can offer you, contacting me is the only way to know if we have the potential to make a great pair or just be great friends!!
Great book for any person to read, man or woman: "His needs, Her needs"
"the most important need we all have, is the need to be loved".
"be the change you want to see in the world"
First Date
Should be simple and involve great conversation and/or interaction with each other(ex. coffee shop, dinner, drinks(wine/micro brews-love troeg's beer..), since it is one of the first steps in a relationship getting to know each other is very important. Having fun with each other is a big part of this and you will have a lot of fun with me..
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