spiritafire: I yam what i yam....
Smokes Occasionally with Average body type
San diego, California
47 year old Male, 6' 4" (193cm), Other
Mixed Race, Libra
spiritafire is actively seeking a relationship.
Some University
Free Thinker
carpenter/electronics tech

I am Seeking a Woman For Long Term
Needs Test View his relationship needs Chemistry View his chemistry results
Do you drink? Socially Do you want children? Want children
Marital Status Single Do you do drugs? No
Hair Color Mixed Color Eye Color Brown
Do you have a car? Yes Do you have children? All my kids are over 18
Longest Relationship Over 6 years How ambitious are you? Ambitious
Pets No Pets Second Language Other

About Me
Hi! I'm a tall smart and handsome sorta outlaw computer nerd biker concert sound and light guy evolved thinker Libra lover kinda guy and it's kinda lonely on the cutting edge. Strange but broad quality education after rough start in life gives me an Everyman kind of out look. I don't expect anything from you beyond what you tell me I can expect, and you can change your mind about that, just let me know when you do, ok? Not that I'm just another dumb guy; I'm all man but I have strong intuition and deep sensitivity and can even read minds when needed, I'd just rather have a clue and avoid the "you should have knoooown I felt that way!" kind of scenes.
I'm looking for a lover that won't blow my cover, she's soooo hard to find. (Eagles. case you did'nt recognize it.) So I'm just taking it easy til' I do. I love you anyway you come but prefer small, trim and healthy woman who can wander on the beach all night on a lark and still make it to work (or school, whatever you do, I'll have your back.) on time and deal with it. Actually haven't done that in too long now so I'm overdue. Torrey Pines is so close, too. Jeez, hurry up already..... March 1, 2005 and I still haven't met you yet... Revising my profile a little cause I've actually lurked around the site for the first time and there are some pretty cool people out there I would be lucky to have as friends. (dragonn, you have my vote for president! see the "abuse" forum if you like thrillers with happy endings, so far...) So if you just think I might be almost as cool as you and you wanna find out, write me. I'm always looking for good friends I haven't met yet. You're message goes to my email to my phone so I can usually reply while you're still online if you ask me to.
Halloween 2006: Finally met someone special after a year of online tag and it was like an Eharmony commercial, making out like kids within moments of meeting and still hot months later when it ended abrubtly, like, well I'm still sorting that out. So now I get serious. Cause I know what I want. What I need, I should say. I'm a half crazy street kid from Chicago who is also the intellectual equal of anyone on the planet. It's a unique combination that makes it easy to do ANYTHING I set out to do. And it's going to waste. I've got my faults and a little baggage, been rode hard and put away wet once or twice, but even at my worst I'm better than most. And I want to find the woman who isn't intimidated by casual displays of magic nor my quiet arrogance and make a life together. Figure things out together and enjoy the results together. Make love and children and a loving home together. Make a million bucks together. Each. Set a good example together. Maybe make a difference together. Serious enough for ya? Well, I seriously enjoy life. I laugh easily and often, am kind and supportive always, and never hate anyone, just some of the things that they do. Oh yeah, I'm handsome and sexy, too. Too good to be true? Too good to waste. Amazing to a fault and it just gets better and better. So if you can handle that, drop me a line. That would be pretty amazing to me...

Conversation Starters (i.e. what you'd like to do on a first date...)
'd love to rent a little(not too little) sailboat and take it out on the ocean for the best part of the day, making it back before dark, then if all the fresh air and wine didn't wipe us too bad, find a club, see a band or a comedy act. (I'm usually backstage so that would be a treat.) Something to compliment the full day behind us and maybe, if you feel adventurous, the full night ahead of us. Ever seen the "silvercaps" from the beach late at night? The night is young and so are we... Or we could just go get some beer or 100 proof schnapps and get silly and talk or download music or whatever. I'm pretty versatile. See my other picture in the dictionary under "laid back". "Shrooms are fun, too, when the settings right.